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To what degree are we expected to identify/fix others' mistakes? [closed]
If someone makes a mistake and they appear to be unaware of it, it seems that there are some situations where we would be expected to point it out, or perhaps even directly intercede to fix it.
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I dislike cooking if anyone else is in the kitchen -- is this normal? [closed]
I generally enjoy cooking, however I really dislike trying to cook if anyone else is in the kitchen.
I feel like the other person(s) are just constantly in my way, standing in front of whatever I'm ...
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How do I stop spending money without any reason [closed]
I often (mostly) spend my money too much for no obvious reason, in December 2023 I bought myself an used iPhone and that turns out to be worst and then decided to sell it off and then after selling it ...
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My wife wants to have sex with my 1 year old present, I dont. She gets mad at me, what can I do?
I have a one year old son that sleeps in the bed with me and my wife. When he's asleep she tries to have sex with me but I will not do it. I feel it's weird and I'm too busy looking at him trying to ...
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Is it worth trying to maintain relationships despite having suspicions on their real intention? [closed]
It's always been difficult for me to have friends. Even when I did, they were not really friends, just people to hang out with to avoid loneliness. Now I'm okay with the loneliness, so I'm used to ...
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How to gently but firmly approach someone about leading me on
So, long story short, I (man) was led on by a woman, let's call her Alice for convenience, over the course of about two months (In a previous revision I included a summary of the relationship, but I ...
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People keep misinterpreting what I say. How can I help them understand I'm mostly straightforward? [closed]
I tend to take things literally, which can lead to misunderstandings. For example, when someone jokes, I might not immediately recognize it unless it's very obvious. This has led to people thinking I'...
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How should I confess my feelings to a teammate I'm falling for?
I need some advice on a situation I’m facing.
I'm part of my school's track and field team. A year ago, I met a new member of our team. We've always been on friendly terms, but a couple of months ago, ...
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How to approach my autistic friend regarding his negative behavior?
I have a close friend who is autistic. We have been friends for over 20 years. Over time he has made increasingly disparaging comments about me and I am unsure of how to address this.
My friend was ...
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How do I avoid discussions that provoke my aversion to slang words and my friends that use them? [closed]
I am a 16 yo teen. I have recently gotten admitted into a new school. My classmates in this school use too much slangs and discuss on topics related to lust too often. My initial socialization attempt ...
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How do I stop my friends & relatives from postponing their requests for help until the last minute and then disrupting my plans with urgent requests?
The problem outlined in the title is really getting to me. Some of my relatives and friends are overburdened by their everyday duties and barely manage to plan ahead. They often suddenly face an ...
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How to Deal with Harassment Pranksters in Public?
Harassment pranksters create content that solely involves harassing people.
They make people visibly uncomfortable and, in some cases, creating potentially unsafe situations.
My general strategy in ...
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When is confirmation or acknowledgement desirable in a mail dialogue?
In a mail dialogue, when is confirmation or acknowledgement desirable? Or to put it differently, when does the conversation end and both parties are clear on what is agreed to?
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How can I get women to reject me more openly?
I'm a rather socially active guy in my early thirties. I meet many interesting women at meetups, speaking clubs, speed dating events and such. When I want to get to know them better, I will usually ...
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How to let a roomate know that their speakerphone is loud and I can hear it?
I have a roommate who is on his phone a lot (he works from home over the phone). His phone is always on speakerphone at quite a loud volume. When his door will be closed and my door is closed and I'm ...
