I need some advice on a situation I’m facing.
I'm part of my school's track and field team. A year ago, I met a new member of our team. We've always been on friendly terms, but a couple of months ago, we started spending more time together during practice, and I even began attending her church.
About two months ago, I realized I had strong feelings for her. I’ve been hesitant to express these feelings because we’re on the same team, which could make things complicated, especially if she doesn’t feel the same way. This situation has been tough for me, especially since I have Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), and it’s led me to return to my therapist.
Now that it’s summer break, we can only communicate via text, and even that has decreased since she’s working at a camp. We usually talk about Bible verses and our perspectives on various things, including our core values, and what we treasure, and so on, as I've recently started reading the Bible myself.
During a particularly impulsive moment, I bought her a birthday gift that I believe she’ll really appreciate. My plan is to give her the gift when she returns and use that opportunity to confess my feelings. I feel a strong need to express how I feel, not just to move forward but also to get some closure, regardless of her response.
So, how should I go about telling her my feelings and asking her out?