Questions tagged [sex]
For questions about the interpersonal skills used to navigate issues around sexual activity, including issues where there are sexual undertones. Not to be confused with 'gender'. When asking about interpersonal skills related to dealing with issues surrounding sexuality, please use 'lgbt+'.
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Can miscommunication lead to accidental rape? [closed]
Me and my partner usually have consensual I won't give details but, sometimes we do certain things during the intercourse that requires a safe word we agreed if I was in pain I should say "fire&...
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My wife wants to have sex with my 1 year old present, I dont. She gets mad at me, what can I do?
I have a one year old son that sleeps in the bed with me and my wife. When he's asleep she tries to have sex with me but I will not do it. I feel it's weird and I'm too busy looking at him trying to ...
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How to have "consent talks" with a partner who strongly dislikes such conversation?
I have read a lot about rendering sex more interesting by trying to avoid falling into an always-the-same-procedure routine. Likewise, I have read a lot about having conversations with one's partner ...
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How do I tell my online girlfriend that I'm actually a girl? [closed]
I met this girl on online a few weeks ago and we started dating two days after. She assumes that I'm a guy and I was going to tell her that I'm actually a girl, but then I felt bad because what I ...
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Religious friend making derogatory comments about my sexual life because I prefer singledom
This is in some ways a follow up to Responding to people questioning my single status?
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I'm a guy in my late 20s and I don't like relationships. The whole process of dating, ...
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How can I make my girlfriend understand that what she said hurt my feelings?
I (male) am in my early twenties and so is my current girlfriend, we have been together for close to a year. Up until recently, our relationship has been mostly problem free.
However, some days ago, ...
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Girlfriend indicated that she wants to pleasure me orally, which startled me, now things are stifled
My girlfriend and I have been having sex for a while now, but I guess she wants to start experimenting in bed.
I'm not sure if it's because she's bored or if it's because she just wants to let me ...
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How can I tell my brother to stop giving me condoms for my birthday?
Every year since I turned 18, my older brother has given me a 3-pack of condoms for my birthday with a note that says, "Maybe this year, loser."
The first time it happened, I just kind of laughed it ...
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I desire to try intercourse with a sex worker. How do I bring this up with my partner? [closed]
I would like to try intercourse with a sex worker. How can I bring this up with my partner without damaging the relationship?
I am curious what it is like to have sex with another person than my ...
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How can I give an ultimatum without actually giving it? [duplicate]
I will soon bring up the idea of a backup method of contraceptives to my girlfriend of 7 months. We usually only use male contraceptives, but she is the first girlfriend that I've had which isn't on ...
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Asking my partner why they don't want me to pleasure them
Whenever we are intimate, my partner never lets me pleasure them.
If I try to continue after I'm done, they just shoot me down with something like "it's OK," or "you don't need to,", or "don't worry ...
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How to tell my ex not to expect sex
I'm a 25 year old man living in France. Last year I dated a 30 year old woman in the US, and kept things really casual (I knew she wanted to be more than dating but it was not reciprocal).
Now she is ...
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How to invite a significant other to spend the night without implying sex?
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I started dating my boyfriend a few weeks ago. All has gone well so far but we're both new to this so we're taking it slow.
The other day, we were with some of our friends playing a ...
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Telling shy person about discomfort during sex
I’ve recently become more sexually active and have found myself in a difficult position. I’m currently in a “friends with benefits” type of relationship and have found my partner to be quite shy and ...
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I want to bring up birth control to my girlfriend without causing a fight
We've been together for a few months and only use condoms for protection. Recently there have been a few isolated signs of her being pregnant. I think I'm most likely just paranoid and that the ...
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