Note that the game is equivalent to the following:
You randomly choose $4$ numbers between $1$ and $13$, add them up together, then look at the first $3$ and substract the lowest value.
Let $X$ be a random variable, which returns a value between $1$ and $13$ and let $X_1,X_2,X_3,X_4$ be independent variables of the same distribution as $X$. The result is then
$$E\left(\sum_{i=1}^4 X_i -\min_{1\leqslant i\leqslant 3}X_i\right)=\sum_{i=1}^4E(X_i)-E\left(\min_{1\leqslant i\leqslant 3}X_i\right).$$
To calculate the expected value of this mininum, first observe that from independence we get
$$\mathbb P\left(\min_{1\leqslant i\leqslant 3}X_i \geqslant t\right)=\mathbb P(X_1\geqslant t)\cdot\mathbb P(X_2\geqslant t)\cdot\mathbb P(X_3\geqslant t)=\left(\frac{14-t}{13}\right)^3,$$
where the last equality holds only for $t\in\{1,\ldots, 14\}$.
For any $Y$ with integer values $$\mathbb P(Y=t)=\mathbb P(Y\geqslant t)-\mathbb P(Y>t)=\mathbb P(Y\geqslant t)-\mathbb P(Y\geqslant t+1).$$
Hence
$$E\left(\min_{1\leqslant i\leqslant 3}X_i\right)=\sum_{t=1}^{13}\left(\mathbb P(Y\geqslant t)-\mathbb P(Y\geqslant t+1)\right)\cdot t=$$$$=\sum_{t=1}^{13}\left(\left(\frac{14-t}{13}\right)^3- \left(\frac{13-t}{13}\right)^3\right)\cdot t.$$
I don't know of a connection to standard deviation here.
EDIT.
As noted in the comments the solution above comes from the interpretation that each card is drawn from another deck.
If the first 3 cards are drawn from the same deck, then $X_1$, $X_2$, $X_3$ are not independent and
$$\mathbb P\left(\min_{1\leqslant i\leqslant 3}X_i> t\right)=\frac{{{52-4t}\choose 3}}{{52\choose 3}}$$ for each $t\in\{0,\ldots, 12\}$.
Since it is not specified how the fourth card is chosen, I can't give the final formula.