Timeline for Is it appropriate to speak up for a team member who can't drink due to addiction recovery when a company event is being planned?
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| Jun 16, 2022 at 23:49 | comment | added | Omegacron | @TheRubberDuck - the term makes me think more of Chili's or TGIF... the kind of restaurant where they ask you if you want to sit at the bar while waiting for your table. | |
| Jun 15, 2022 at 18:17 | answer | added | user3147193 | timeline score: 9 | |
| S Jun 15, 2022 at 16:29 | history | suggested | CommunityBot | CC BY-SA 4.0 |
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| Jun 15, 2022 at 16:13 | comment | added | Thorbjørn Ravn Andersen | Ask the team member first how he/she would like you to handle this. | |
| Jun 15, 2022 at 14:15 | comment | added | mickburkejnr | From (painful) personal experience, not all alcoholism is the same. My father was an alcoholic, but said himself that he never missed drinking. He went for years without a drink, could (and did) go to pubs with others who drank and he never touched a drop. When he did drink though it was often because of emotional events (such as a death of a friend), and 1 drink would turn in to 2 weeks of a bender for him. Even after this, he could go to a pub and just drink pop and wasn't tempted by any of it. Not all people are like this, so just bare this in mind with your colleague. | |
| Jun 15, 2022 at 12:41 | vote | accept | Anthony | ||
| Jun 15, 2022 at 9:52 | answer | added | Ljm Dullaart | timeline score: 1 | |
| Jun 15, 2022 at 5:28 | answer | added | bta | timeline score: 46 | |
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| Jun 14, 2022 at 20:08 | answer | added | Ertai87 | timeline score: 1 | |
| Jun 14, 2022 at 19:11 | comment | added | shoover | @TheRubberDuck I can't speak for OP, but where I live there are "restaurants that serve alcohol" but also "bars that serve really good food." | |
| Jun 14, 2022 at 19:11 | history | edited | Cjxcz Odjcayrwl |
drinking tag would be most specific for the question
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| Jun 14, 2022 at 19:10 | answer | added | Cjxcz Odjcayrwl | timeline score: 1 | |
| Jun 14, 2022 at 16:21 | comment | added | LeLetter | Hey will there be other opportunities for everyone to interact with department heads? A booze free reception in the office, during the day, might help team mates feel like they aren't missing out if they skip the bar. This could be a boon for a lot of people, not just your teammate. | |
| Jun 14, 2022 at 14:19 | comment | added | TheRubberDuck | You say "bar and restaurant" - my first thought was an Applebee's type place ("upscale" aside) that is primarily a restaurant but where they serve alcohol from a bar structure. I don't think of that as a "bar environment". I think this could impact the answer; "place with alcohol available" and "drinking party" may benefit different approaches. | |
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| Jun 14, 2022 at 5:49 | answer | added | nvoigt♦ | timeline score: 13 | |
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| Jun 14, 2022 at 3:00 | history | tweeted | twitter.com/StackWorkplace/status/1536543979692560384 | ||
| Jun 14, 2022 at 1:09 | answer | added | G_B | timeline score: 101 | |
| Jun 13, 2022 at 23:36 | comment | added | Anthony | @JoeStrazzere , yes he does. Its to ensure he is comfortable and not to merely going along to avoid being perceived as uncooperative | |
| Jun 13, 2022 at 23:06 | answer | added | Kilisi♦ | timeline score: -5 | |
| Jun 13, 2022 at 22:45 | answer | added | Job_September_2020 | timeline score: 8 | |
| Jun 13, 2022 at 22:39 | history | asked | Anthony | CC BY-SA 4.0 |