I am learning the concept of ordinal numbers.
In the book of Set Theory and Metric Spaces by I. Kaplansky (Sec. 3.2, pg. 55), the author states
We attach to every well-ordered set an ordinal number; two well-ordered sets are awarded the same ordinal number if and only if they are order-isomorphic.
In Wiki, it states that
A natural number (which, in this context, includes the number 0) can be used for two purposes: to describe the size of a set, or to describe the position of an element in a sequence. When restricted to finite sets, these two concepts coincide. When dealing with infinite sets, however, one has to distinguish between the notion of size, which leads to cardinal numbers, and the notion of position, which leads to the ordinal numbers described here.
My first question is then: according to Wiki, an ordinal number should describe the position of an element in a set. Then why the ordinal number is attached to a set? Shouldn't it be attached to an element of a set?
Moreover, I am also confused by the meaning of "set A has a larger ordinal than set B". I mean, for cardinal numbers, I understand that set A has a larger cardinal than B generally means A has a larger size than B. For example, $A=\{0,1,2\}$ and $B=\{0\}$. But how can we say the "position" or the "ordering" of A is larger than that of B?
It will be appreciated if you can explain with some concrete examples. I have checked the answers here and here, but found no help.