Any introduction of relative simultaneity usually is like this :
Alice on a train car shines two beams of light towards both ends where two clock are. She sees both clocks see the light at the same time.
Bob on the station looks at the same event and says the trailing clock was hit before the leading clock.
I have no doubt about what Bob is measuring, but if speed of the light stays independent of the source, then it should not matter if the frame of reference is moving with the targets -i.e clocks- or not , both Alice and Bob should see clocks are being hit non-simultaneously .
Is there any actual experiment that proves Alice is seeing simultaneous clock hit ? I mean has anyone placed clocks on very fast moving objects to prove light hits both leading and trailing sides at the same time ? Or do radio signals arrive at different times to equidistant Eastern and Western stations due to rotation of the Earth?