I'm an amateur and this is my first question here, I'm trying to formulate question about a general representation I have in mind after trying to grasp the idea of relativity and the concept of space-time.
We always talk about the "speed of light", but it's a bit of a misuse of terminology, since we should really talk about "speed of electromagnetic radiations (EMRs)".
Moreover, we recently confirmed that gravitational waves, despite not being of the same nature as EMRs, travel at the same "speed of light".
Considering that, according to relativity, an object travelling at the speed of light would not experience time passing, and that it doesn't seem to make sense to envision travelling faster than the speed of light,
Would it not be natural to consider the "speed of light" as being the "speed of time", or, let's say the speed at which the present propagates through space ?
This way the speed of light and gravitational waves would be actually instantaneous, or at least as much instantaneous as the universe can be, and each point of the universe would "communicate" with the other points at the "speed of light".
Usually when trying to [in]validate this idea by reading other questions or other sources, I find complex explanations that do not really help me evaluate the correctness of the broad model I have in mind.
I do not know if this is something that seems quite obvious to everyone already, but I couldn't find it expressed this way, and this mental picture really makes sense to me. If it does not correspond to our current state of understanding, could you give me some clue of where my formulation does not fit reality ?