i.e. What does $\epsilon_{0}$ mean in real life? Like pressure = force exerted over an area, momentum = mv which is some measure of the motion of a mass, acceleration = how quickly the velocity changes, etc. Is it a constant I just have to know, like $\pi = \frac{circumference}{diameter}$ or $c \approx 3\cdot10^{9} m/s$? Does it only have the units it does so that everything works out nicely in equations? Up until now I've just been treating it as part of $k=(4\pi \epsilon_{0})^{-1}$ but I ran into it in a different context and now I have no clue what it does.
Sorry if this question sounds like nonsense, my understanding of this is rudimentary so I can't tell if I'm using the right words in the right context. I know this question has been answered more than once but I can't make sense of or visualize the explanations I've already seen. Something about permitting electric field lines, but then someone else says that's wrong and it's about polarizability?
Also, if permittivity is impossible to explain in simple terms, I don't mind being told that it's beyond intuition or to wait until the concept suddenly makes sense one day. thanks