Observe $$\dfrac{1}{9\sqrt{11} + 11\sqrt9}$$
$$ =\dfrac{1}{\sqrt 9 \sqrt {11} }\cdot\dfrac{1}{\sqrt9 + \sqrt{11}}$$
$$ =\dfrac{1}{\sqrt 9 \sqrt {11} }\cdot \dfrac{\sqrt{11} - \sqrt{9}}{2}$$
$$ =\dfrac{1}{2}\cdot \dfrac{\sqrt{11} - \sqrt{9}}{\sqrt 9 \sqrt {11} }$$
$$ =\dfrac{1}{2}\cdot \Big(\dfrac{1}{\sqrt{9}} - \dfrac{1}{\sqrt{11}}\Big)$$
Thus LHS
$$ \dfrac{1}{2}\cdot \Big(\dfrac{1}{\sqrt{9}} - \dfrac{1}{\sqrt{11}}\Big) + \dfrac{1}{2}\cdot \Big(\dfrac{1}{\sqrt{13}} - \dfrac{1}{\sqrt{11}}\Big) + \ldots + \dfrac{1}{2}\cdot \Big(\dfrac{1}{\sqrt{n}} - \dfrac{1}{\sqrt{n+2}}\Big)$$
telescopes to
$$ \dfrac{1}{2}\cdot \Big(\dfrac{1}{\sqrt{9}} - \dfrac{1}{\sqrt{n+2}}\Big) = \dfrac{1}{9}$$
$$ \Rightarrow \dfrac{1}{3} - \dfrac{1}{\sqrt{n+2}} = \dfrac{2}{9}$$
$$ \Rightarrow n+2 = 81 $$
$$ \Rightarrow \boxed{n=79} $$
Note The $n$ in your question and the $n$ in your attempt are different. I have found $n$ in your question. Indeed final term is $\frac{1}{\sqrt{81}}$ as in the other answer. The $n$ in your attempt is $36$. Indeed $2\cdot36+9=81$.