If you understand why the set of finite sequences of integers is countable, then it can be easier.
Recall that a real number $x$ is rational if and only if it has an eventually repeating decimal expansion. This means that a rational number is fully decided by a finite sequence of digits (which might be empty), and then another sequence of the repeated pattern. For example $1/12=0.083333\ldots$ so it has $08$ and $3$ as the initial string and the repeating part.
Irrational numbers, on the other hand, have no repeating pattern. This means that there are many more ways to combine the finite patterns together, especially if you understand why there are uncountably many different ways of arranging an infinite sequence of digits.
I am well aware that this is not a fully satisfactory explanation, and this is a difficult fact that many people find difficult at first. Some of them become anti-Cantorian cranks which insist that this cannot be, and mathematicians are wrong. Others simply accept it, whether or not they fully understand it, and move on.
However, I do find the arguments about sequences and sets easier to comprehend, so the above is just a rough translation of intuition as to why the same is true for irrational numbers.
The most helpful tip I can give is that infinity is counterintuitive, at least until you uproot all your "natural" intuition and replace it with mathematical one. To do that, and until you do that, the safest thing is to stick to the definitions and inferences. So why are the irrational numbers uncountable? Because we can prove that they are.