The question “If a 12 year old child uses his mother's car without her consent” contains unnecessary gender references for both the parent and child. At 2:06 pm, 27 March 2022 (UTC), I left a comment suggesting that these gender references be removed. At 8:12 pm, 27 March 2022 (UTC), the OP edited the question to remove one of the gender references:
A 12 year old child uses his
mother'sparent's car without her consent.
This edit did not do its job very well. It left the word “her” in place, and left the word “mother” in the question. Still, it clearly implies that the OP agrees with my suggestion of removing gender references.
Subsequently, I suggested an edit to finish the job (and clean up the post a bit). I used this edit summary to indicate I was respecting OP’s wishes:
Complete previous edit by removing all gender references; copyedit.
Still, the suggestion was rejected for not respecting OP’s wishes. Why?