I am quite desperate, because I just bought a new laptop (XMG CORE 17 - E21qzj FHD i7 16GB 1TBSSD RTX3060 W10H) and I tried to adjust all the settings, but it is just so slow.
Right now I am trying to model a body-suit, but it just takes ages to even move one plane in edit mode, both in EEVE and Cycles and both without even showing the rendered view.
I really fell in love with blender, but right now its complicated.
Here is the file (565 MB): https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ryDi1LNruFc7doZIzxrzS-Lhhz7EQN3f/view?usp=sharing