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The
Imposter
Syndrome
When Successful
Women Feel Like
Frauds
Definition
 The psychological experience of believing
that one’s accomplishments came about
not through genuine ability, but as a result
of having been lucky, having worked
harder than others, or having
manipulated other people’s impressions,
has been labeled the impostor
phenomenon
“I’m a fraud, they’re onto me!” -Tina
Fey, popular actress and awards host
“They must be speaking directly to me…” -
Sherly Sandberg, Facebook COO and
author of “Lean in” while attending Harvard
speech on “Feeling Like a Fraud”
“I’m always looking over my
shoulder, wondering if I measure up.” –
Sonia Sotmayor while attending Princeton
The Imposter Syndrome
 Term was keyed in 1978 by psychologist
Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes .
 Valerie Young, Ed.D, author of “The Secret
Thoughts of Successful Women” says little
has changed in three decades since.
 Even more susceptible now that ever.
Symptoms
 Faking it
 Imposter
 Was just lucky
 Can’t internalize successes
 High levels of self-doubt
 Deep level of inauthenticity
 Just fooling everyone
 Fear of exposure
Keep in Mind-
 It is not perceived to be a psychological
disorder among people, but it has been
the topic of research for many
psychologists.
 Evidence gathered from research does
not support the idea that this syndrome is
a distinct personality trait, but certain
people are more prone to impostor
feelings.
Gender Differences
 Boys are taught to bluff and exaggerate
 Girls are taught to not trust their opinions
and stifle their voices.
 How does this impact the growth patter of
self-esteem?
Susan Pinker
 Author of “The Sexual Paradox, the Real
Gender Gap” Discusses the fraud
syndrome:
“…it is purely limited to successful women;
successful men apparently never feel like
they are frauds.
Costs to Companies
"The cost to their companies in terms of
unrealized human potential can be
enormous. … When qualified workers fear
risks, get caught in the 'expert trap' and are
prone to perfectionism and procrastination,
there's a leak in the corporation's human
resources pool.
Career Choice Impacts
 In male-dominated fields women are
more vulnerable to feeling like frauds.
 Often women in technical fields specialize
later-on in their lives in their field of choice.
 Work allowed to spill less into personal life.
 May be only woman on team.
“I must have fooled them..”
The Gender Gap
 Males are more likely to blame outside
influences where women are more likely
to blame themselves.
 Women, when surveyed, believed that
their performance directly reflects on their
female peers.
 Women believed their were being
watched more closely on performance
than men did.
Biggest Impact
 Its not discrimination, but…
Stereotyping, which is evident
from both genders and not just from older
age groups.
Cumulative Effect
 Holding Back
 Over working
 Giving up
 Procrastinating
 Taking criticism too personally
 Qualifying contributions
Perfect Matches?
 The Dunning–Kruger effect is a cognitive
bias in which unskilled individuals suffer
from illusory superiority, mistakenly rating
their ability much higher than average.
This bias is attributed to a metacognitive
inability of the unskilled to recognize their
mistakes.
Theories
 Special Minority Programs may add to
feelings of inadequacy- “I was only hired
because I was black/female/etc.”
instead of recognizing that the person
was hired for their skills.
Never Let Them See You
Sweat
 Or make a mistake.
 Or be less than in your best condition.
 Or perform less than perfect.
 Or take the best path in life.
 Or accomplish twice as much as anyone
else in ½ the time….
Small Talk
 "This may not be right, but…"
 “I don’t know if I should add this, but”
 "Anyone could have done it"
 “I didn’t provide much.“
 “I’m sure you can find someone more
qualified than me.”
Worry, Worry and Worry
 dismissive attitude when praised .
 feeling that peers with the same
responsibilities are more capable.
 reluctance to accept new responsibilities
or challenges for fear of failure .
 difficult reaction to constructive criticism.
 worrying that others will begin to realize
their shortcomings.
Recognition
 Your contributions matter.
 Your skills are important.
 It’s alright to make mistakes- the
importance is to learn from them.
 Surround yourself with supportive
individuals.
 Stop asking for permission.
Ways of Addressing
 Taking risks or completing tasks that are
undesirable can help address fear of
failure.
 Ask oneself directly what in the past or
childhood may make one feel
inadequate.
 Its not a mistake the first time, it’s
experience.
When it happens…
 When having a direct comparison, look
honestly at your accomplishments and
establish if you aren’t acknowledging your
own.
 Actively recognize and avoid negative or
destructive thoughts, (imposter syndrome).
 Recognize negativity in others that may
impact your ability to see your contributions.
How to Stop it…
 Chalk it up to a lessons learned, (not a
mistake..)
 Be kinder to yourself. We are our worst
critics.
 Seek Support from mentors and others
that can offer you an honest view.
 Visualize your success!
Final Thought…
 “ A successful man is one who can lay a
firm foundation with the bricks that others
throw at him. ”
— Sidney Greenberg
Women need to recognize this more… 
References
 http://www.forbes.com/sites/jennagoudr
eau/2011/10/19/women-feel-like-frauds-
failures-tina-fey-sheryl-sandberg/
 http://www.forbes.com/2010/02/22/impos
ter-syndrome-professional-fraud-forbes-
woman-leadership-psychology.html
 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Impostor_syn
drome

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  • 2. Definition  The psychological experience of believing that one’s accomplishments came about not through genuine ability, but as a result of having been lucky, having worked harder than others, or having manipulated other people’s impressions, has been labeled the impostor phenomenon
  • 3. “I’m a fraud, they’re onto me!” -Tina Fey, popular actress and awards host “They must be speaking directly to me…” - Sherly Sandberg, Facebook COO and author of “Lean in” while attending Harvard speech on “Feeling Like a Fraud” “I’m always looking over my shoulder, wondering if I measure up.” – Sonia Sotmayor while attending Princeton
  • 4. The Imposter Syndrome  Term was keyed in 1978 by psychologist Pauline Clance and Suzanne Imes .  Valerie Young, Ed.D, author of “The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women” says little has changed in three decades since.  Even more susceptible now that ever.
  • 5. Symptoms  Faking it  Imposter  Was just lucky  Can’t internalize successes  High levels of self-doubt  Deep level of inauthenticity  Just fooling everyone  Fear of exposure
  • 6. Keep in Mind-  It is not perceived to be a psychological disorder among people, but it has been the topic of research for many psychologists.  Evidence gathered from research does not support the idea that this syndrome is a distinct personality trait, but certain people are more prone to impostor feelings.
  • 7. Gender Differences  Boys are taught to bluff and exaggerate  Girls are taught to not trust their opinions and stifle their voices.  How does this impact the growth patter of self-esteem?
  • 8. Susan Pinker  Author of “The Sexual Paradox, the Real Gender Gap” Discusses the fraud syndrome: “…it is purely limited to successful women; successful men apparently never feel like they are frauds.
  • 9. Costs to Companies "The cost to their companies in terms of unrealized human potential can be enormous. … When qualified workers fear risks, get caught in the 'expert trap' and are prone to perfectionism and procrastination, there's a leak in the corporation's human resources pool.
  • 10. Career Choice Impacts  In male-dominated fields women are more vulnerable to feeling like frauds.  Often women in technical fields specialize later-on in their lives in their field of choice.  Work allowed to spill less into personal life.  May be only woman on team. “I must have fooled them..”
  • 11. The Gender Gap  Males are more likely to blame outside influences where women are more likely to blame themselves.  Women, when surveyed, believed that their performance directly reflects on their female peers.  Women believed their were being watched more closely on performance than men did.
  • 12. Biggest Impact  Its not discrimination, but… Stereotyping, which is evident from both genders and not just from older age groups.
  • 13. Cumulative Effect  Holding Back  Over working  Giving up  Procrastinating  Taking criticism too personally  Qualifying contributions
  • 14. Perfect Matches?  The Dunning–Kruger effect is a cognitive bias in which unskilled individuals suffer from illusory superiority, mistakenly rating their ability much higher than average. This bias is attributed to a metacognitive inability of the unskilled to recognize their mistakes.
  • 15. Theories  Special Minority Programs may add to feelings of inadequacy- “I was only hired because I was black/female/etc.” instead of recognizing that the person was hired for their skills.
  • 16. Never Let Them See You Sweat  Or make a mistake.  Or be less than in your best condition.  Or perform less than perfect.  Or take the best path in life.  Or accomplish twice as much as anyone else in ½ the time….
  • 17. Small Talk  "This may not be right, but…"  “I don’t know if I should add this, but”  "Anyone could have done it"  “I didn’t provide much.“  “I’m sure you can find someone more qualified than me.”
  • 18. Worry, Worry and Worry  dismissive attitude when praised .  feeling that peers with the same responsibilities are more capable.  reluctance to accept new responsibilities or challenges for fear of failure .  difficult reaction to constructive criticism.  worrying that others will begin to realize their shortcomings.
  • 19. Recognition  Your contributions matter.  Your skills are important.  It’s alright to make mistakes- the importance is to learn from them.  Surround yourself with supportive individuals.  Stop asking for permission.
  • 20. Ways of Addressing  Taking risks or completing tasks that are undesirable can help address fear of failure.  Ask oneself directly what in the past or childhood may make one feel inadequate.  Its not a mistake the first time, it’s experience.
  • 21. When it happens…  When having a direct comparison, look honestly at your accomplishments and establish if you aren’t acknowledging your own.  Actively recognize and avoid negative or destructive thoughts, (imposter syndrome).  Recognize negativity in others that may impact your ability to see your contributions.
  • 22. How to Stop it…  Chalk it up to a lessons learned, (not a mistake..)  Be kinder to yourself. We are our worst critics.  Seek Support from mentors and others that can offer you an honest view.  Visualize your success!
  • 23. Final Thought…  “ A successful man is one who can lay a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him. ” — Sidney Greenberg Women need to recognize this more… 