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How to keep KIDS AND YOUTH Safe online
Family rules Technology tools
types of parental controlS
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1. Make a list of trusted peers/adults that your child can talkto in an uncomfortablesituation.
2. Set rules for your home anduse a Family Media Agreement
4. Discuss practice scenarios
Develop
a safety
plan
3. Ask questions & probe theirunderstanding
Family Media Rules
- Mutual responsibilities
- Age appropriate
- Download from:
CommonSenseMedia.org
-What are your friends doing online?
-What are the coolest or newest websites?
-Can you show me your favorite sites? Do you know:
-where reporting functions are?
-how to block someone?
-how to keep information private?
QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR CHILD
Don’t assume they know!
Facebook Example: A Bewildering Tangle of Options
• If the request makes you uncomfortable,
don’t respond to the message.
• If the person continues to try to make
contact, tell a friend or trusted adult.
• If you feel that the person is truly
trustworthy and want to meet them, ask a
trusted adult to go with you.
• Never disclose personal information, such
as your phone number or where you live.
• If you’d like, you can also talk to someone
anonymously by calling the CyberTipline
at 1-800-843-5678.
Agreeing on specific action steps
ahead of time can save youth the
difficulty of trying to figure out
what to do in the moment
You met a really nice
girl/guy online, but
they live a few hours
away. One day they
message you and say
that they’re coming to
your town for the day.
They want to meet you
at the mall.
devices = diaryA Question of Trust
IN CASE OF EMERGENCY
collect passwords & store them in a sealed envelope
Have the
computer
centrally
located
but:
OS parental controls
software controls
prevent unwanted content
from entering your computer
mobile device filters
restrict what your kids have
access to on mobile devices
Browser-specific solutions
filter out websites you don't
want your kids to visit.
ROUTER SOLUTIONS
prevent unwanted content
from entering your home
TechnologyTools
Open DNS
OS parental controls
• Apps: Specify which apps the child
can access.
• Web: Limit access to websites, or
allow unrestricted access.
• People: Restrict a child’s contact
with other people through Game
Center, Mail, and Messages.
• Time Limits: Set time limits for
weekdays, weekends, and bedtime.
• Other: Hide profanity in the
dictionary and other sources. Block
using the built-in camera, Dictation,
burning CDs and DVDs, or changing
the password or printer settings.
Choose General, then Restrictions.
Enable Restrictions & enter a
password your kids won’t guess.
Under the Allow section, switch
anything to “off” you want to
disable completely.
Under the Allowed Content tab,
change the settings for Music &
Podcasts, Movies, TV Shows and
Apps to your preferred level.
Set Apps to 12+ or less, to prevent
children from installing unfiltered
browsers, which are rated 17+.
Mobile device filters
For Android devices: Menu > Content Filtering > Choose your filters
Disable Location Services
- Talk about safety risks
- Ask if your kid knows
how to disable this
- Ask if your kid knows
whether it is enabled
- Check their posts
location icon
Helps kids resist
sexts and peer
pressure with
funny comebacks.
Also provides
advice on dealing
with sexting crises.
Useful
apps:
Zipit
“Send
this
instead”
app
Gives kids a voice
when they are
under pressure to
send intimate
images of
themselves online.
- credits: love146.org
Websites to keep an eye on:
• Become a ‘friend/follower’ of your kid’s social media
accounts. But remember that they can block you.
• Have your youth use your app store account or an
account linked to your email, so you’ll be notified when
an app is downloaded.
• Set hard boundaries on pieces of info that
should never be shared publicly, such as a
personal phone number or home address.
Additional Ideas:

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A Parent's Guide to Keeping Kids Safe Online

  • 1. How to keep KIDS AND YOUTH Safe online
  • 2. Family rules Technology tools types of parental controlS 22
  • 3. 1. Make a list of trusted peers/adults that your child can talkto in an uncomfortablesituation. 2. Set rules for your home anduse a Family Media Agreement 4. Discuss practice scenarios Develop a safety plan 3. Ask questions & probe theirunderstanding
  • 4. Family Media Rules - Mutual responsibilities - Age appropriate - Download from: CommonSenseMedia.org
  • 5. -What are your friends doing online? -What are the coolest or newest websites? -Can you show me your favorite sites? Do you know: -where reporting functions are? -how to block someone? -how to keep information private? QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR CHILD
  • 6. Don’t assume they know! Facebook Example: A Bewildering Tangle of Options
  • 7. • If the request makes you uncomfortable, don’t respond to the message. • If the person continues to try to make contact, tell a friend or trusted adult. • If you feel that the person is truly trustworthy and want to meet them, ask a trusted adult to go with you. • Never disclose personal information, such as your phone number or where you live. • If you’d like, you can also talk to someone anonymously by calling the CyberTipline at 1-800-843-5678. Agreeing on specific action steps ahead of time can save youth the difficulty of trying to figure out what to do in the moment You met a really nice girl/guy online, but they live a few hours away. One day they message you and say that they’re coming to your town for the day. They want to meet you at the mall.
  • 8. devices = diaryA Question of Trust
  • 9. IN CASE OF EMERGENCY collect passwords & store them in a sealed envelope
  • 11. OS parental controls software controls prevent unwanted content from entering your computer mobile device filters restrict what your kids have access to on mobile devices Browser-specific solutions filter out websites you don't want your kids to visit. ROUTER SOLUTIONS prevent unwanted content from entering your home TechnologyTools Open DNS
  • 12. OS parental controls • Apps: Specify which apps the child can access. • Web: Limit access to websites, or allow unrestricted access. • People: Restrict a child’s contact with other people through Game Center, Mail, and Messages. • Time Limits: Set time limits for weekdays, weekends, and bedtime. • Other: Hide profanity in the dictionary and other sources. Block using the built-in camera, Dictation, burning CDs and DVDs, or changing the password or printer settings.
  • 13. Choose General, then Restrictions. Enable Restrictions & enter a password your kids won’t guess. Under the Allow section, switch anything to “off” you want to disable completely. Under the Allowed Content tab, change the settings for Music & Podcasts, Movies, TV Shows and Apps to your preferred level. Set Apps to 12+ or less, to prevent children from installing unfiltered browsers, which are rated 17+. Mobile device filters For Android devices: Menu > Content Filtering > Choose your filters
  • 14. Disable Location Services - Talk about safety risks - Ask if your kid knows how to disable this - Ask if your kid knows whether it is enabled - Check their posts location icon
  • 15. Helps kids resist sexts and peer pressure with funny comebacks. Also provides advice on dealing with sexting crises. Useful apps: Zipit
  • 16. “Send this instead” app Gives kids a voice when they are under pressure to send intimate images of themselves online.
  • 17. - credits: love146.org Websites to keep an eye on:
  • 18. • Become a ‘friend/follower’ of your kid’s social media accounts. But remember that they can block you. • Have your youth use your app store account or an account linked to your email, so you’ll be notified when an app is downloaded. • Set hard boundaries on pieces of info that should never be shared publicly, such as a personal phone number or home address. Additional Ideas: