Questions
1-Is there any way of arguing that gets me out of this new boss that sounds reasonable and professional?
2-How can I keep upper management informed about my dissatisfaction, even if I manage to have a good relationship with my new boss (who I still fear will backstab me quite a lot).
3-Any tips for when your boss personally dislikes you?
Context
A while ago I had a long-lasting problematic project with two work colleagues that requested our boss to basically kick me out of a project.
This was partially due to work styles but mostly due to personal differences.
Their request back then was granted and I was literally told the decision was so that with me being apart from them there should be no more problems.
And so be it, I thought. By simply not caring about anything they would do (or fail to do) with a proverbial "not my responsibility" attitude, and tending to the activities that I was entrusted with. Since then I've treated these colleagues professionally and with some courtesy here and there.
More recently, one of these former colleagues left the company, which prompted the remaining one to ask more frequently for my support on his activities. I've been trying to professionally help him, but make clear as needed that I have responsibilities of my own that I should generally prioritize.
Now, due to a restructuring of the department, this former colleague who has barely had any oversight over my work in two years has been promoted and became my direct manager.
This was announced publicly without any previous warning to me. I immediately called my former manager asking why this happened, as he himself is neither stepping down nor leaving the company. During a quick conversation, he basically said that he talked with my former colleague which said he would not have any issues working with me.
I basically think that he lied, as claiming to hold a grudge could jeopardize his promotion. Maybe he will be kept on a short leash by upper management for a while, but I'm afraid that over the medium and long term, he'll put his efforts to prepare me for failure, jeopardize any raises or promotions I could get, and keep me under his responsibility until I quit the company.
By the way, last year I was made aware of him bringing criticism and complaints about my work to my boss (even though he had no interface nor any responsibility with the project I was developing, and didn't even talk to me beforehand).
Most of all, I've felt somewhat offended that my past manager, (the same that accepted the request in the past) didn't even bother to check with me neither before making a decision, nor before making the public announcement. I understand that nobody gets happy for being passed for promotion, but that is not my complaint.
I'm considering to state that while I'll work my best under new management, I'm deeply uncomfortable in this position, so that this situation should not be sustained over the medium term. The wording that comes to mind goes around the lines "I think I'll be stuck at this step in my career for as long as I'm under Joe's management, and I am already personally unhappy about working under him. Maybe looking for new challenges would be the only way forward from now on".