The USA requires that the president orders a (lawful) nuclear strike.
The United Kingdom requires that the Prime Minister orders a (lawful) nuclear strike, although the Chief of the Defence Staff could appeal to the monarch, who could rescind the order since the
... armed forces are loyal, and we live in a democracy, but actually their ultimate authority is the king.
So the Prime Minister can launch a nuclear strike without the monarch's consent, but the monarch could (if asked) prevent a strike.
As of March 2023, fifteen Commonwealth realms recognize Charles III as their head of state.
Can the highest ranking military personnel of these countries also ask the monarch to stop a military attack sanctioned by the executive or legislature of their country?