Every person is different, every person has their own little quirks and importantly their own comfort level. As such every person has their own unique set of combinations of physical and or metaphysical tells.
I think it is also very important to stress to you that you are likely not part of the extremely unique club of people who can understand the tiny aspects of body language. I can't recall the exact figure but I recall reading before that the percentage of the population who truly understand the tiny nonverbal communications, i.e. a micro tick of an eye for an example, is less than 0.1% of the population. Again I may be misremembering the exact number, but it's a small percentage. I believe it was from a former FBI nonverbal communications expert Joe Navarro who mentioned it.
I mention this, initially, as unless a person is overtly giving very large physical tells don't place much emphasis on things like, "well I saw they moved a chip 1 cm to the left, and then an eye twitch, so therefore they must not have it". Players who place too much importance on these micro physical tells are for the most part extremely losing players, as they will convince themselves to make terrible plays and calls ignoring poker fundamentals chasing their tells.
However, with the above said, it would be naive to also say that people don't have physical and metaphysical tells that are obvious. Of course, anyone who has been playing poker for awhile, will be more likely to be aware these common tells and more mindful about controlling their body. There is also the aspect of reverse tells, I myself have regularly used, against players who think they are Daniel Negreanu, reverse tells to make them believe I'm weak when I'm strong, and same visa versa.
So there is no best way, but there are a series of shared human physical ticks that are more common and not necessarily unique. I cannot list as there are too many. There are plenty of books for this, some just dedicate sections of their books to tells, others are entirely based on tells.
- Reading Poker Tells by Zachary Elwood - Given you have an interest in understanding tells, I think this is the first one I'd recommend you pick up.
- Mike Caro's Book of Tells - It's old, but because he's not focusing on strategy directly tied to poker hands, and more focused on tell and their meaning it is still a good read. I think this might give you a great indicator of common/likely things you might see.
- Raiser’s Edge, The: Tournament-Poker Strategies for Today’s Aggressive Game - This has a chapter dedicated to Poker tells. Not as in-depth as the above one but a nice addition as well
- Jonathan Little’s Excelling at No-Limit Hold’em: Leading Poker Experts Discuss How to Study, Play and Master NLHE - This brings up tells a bit, but importantly also discussing how to analyse what you're seeing.
Bonus (never read but heard about it):
- Verbal Poker Tells by Zachary Elwood - Follow up to the above book Reading Poker Tells.
The points I'm trying to make here is don't look for a short cut and place too much emphasis on poker tells, especially not over solid poker fundamentals. It's too vast, and impossible to narrow down to a single best way as you're asking for. There is no single best way, the best way is to play with the person, understand and pay attention to what they did, showed and outcome. As an example, did they have happy feet (involuntarily shacking a leg/s), when they had happy feet how did they bet, did they show their cards, what were they, did they do it when they had good cards or bad cards, did they win, when did they start having happy feet, was it when they were bluffing or was it when they hit the nuts, etc, etc!
Even when you believe someone has a physical tell that is reliable, again I cannot stress this enough, don't disregard solid poker understanding, reason and fundamentals. Just because you believe someone has a tell, does not make it a winning decision long term to player 6,9 off, out of position because you believe if you see player do x you know you can raise the turn and win.