in special relativity we add time as a dimension and replace euclidean space $ \mathbb{R}^4 $ with a pseudo-euclidean space $ \mathbb{R}^{1,3} $ of signature $ (1,3) $ by defining a quadratic form $\eta(x) $ such that
$ \forall x \in \mathbb{R}^{4}, \, \, \, s.t. \,\, x = (ct, \overrightarrow{x}) $
$ \eta(x) = (ct)^2 - (\overrightarrow{x})^2 = \vert x \vert^2 $
which under the assumption that the space is flat becomes the Minkowski metric over which special relativity is constructed.
my question relies on the choice of the signature. why of all the possible signatures, only $ (+,-,-,-) $ and $(-,+,+,+)$ work? what is the physical intuition behind time having a different sign that the other 3? is there a mathematical explanation as to why this works?