The stress-energy tensor has 16 components, but this question is only about the 9 components $T^{ij}$ with $i,j=1,2,3$. According to Wikipedia, these components are defined as follows:
The components $T^{kl}$ represent flux of kth component of linear momentum across the $x^l$ surface.
I find it hard to see how this uniquely defines $T^{kl}$. For example, we could add a constant value to any of the $T^{kl}$ and this would give the same time evolution of linear momentum after we apply the continuity equation.
To be more precise, it seems that one can choose 6 of the 9 components $T^{kl}$ arbitrarily; for example, all components with $k\neq l$. To make sure that the continuity equation works, we need that $0=\partial_{\nu}T^{\mu\nu}$ for all $\mu$. This can be done with smart choices of $T^{\mu\mu}$ for $\mu=1,2,3$.
So how can the $T^{kl}$ be uniquely defined?