This might sound like a random question, but it came to me while I was trying to conceptualize the size of the universe and started thinking of entire galaxies resembling grands of sand floating around in the middle of the Pacific ocean. This actually did help me to truly "feel" the vastness of it. But then I started pondering if the concept could be extended to the actual dynamics of gravity and spacetime, which led me to conceptualize spacetime being "displaced" by matter rather than "curved" by it. Conversely, I thought of matter being "compressed" by space-time rather than space-time being compressed by matter. And this would imply that gravity is essentially a "pressure gradient" inside this cosmic "ocean".
So my question is: are there any theories or concepts that treat gravity and space-time more as a "fluid dynamic" or is the classical "curvature" the only real game in town?