This is a broad question but it's well documented that GR and QM are very well tested in their own domains but they conflict around black holes.
Picture a neutron star slowly accreting matter until it's mass is sufficient to bring about an event horizon. It resists gravity owing to the Pauli exclusion principle and it must surely be comprised of the same 'stuff' as the event horizon forms. Why do we then rely on GR and assume everything collapses to a singularity which seems illogical in nature when the most sensible ('we don't know yet') answer surely should be that there exists a 'black star' under the event horizon? It seems that QM is overshadowed by GR in this instance when GR seems to give more illogical answers.
As a thought experiment, if we had a very heavy neutron star and fired one photon at a time at it; I would imagine the surface begins to redshift more and more as time goes on. There would surely reach a point where the miniscule deviations mean that a 'ravine' can no longer emit anything to an observer but a 'mountain' could. It would seem to be on a tipping point of being both a black hole and a neutron star but the mountain is still supported from below from seemingly below the horizon that is forming.