I think I can provide an answer, so I will try... Let the infinitesimal line element in a spacetime be
$$d\tilde{s}^2=g_{00}(x^0,x^i)(dx^0)^2+2g_{0i}(x^0,x^i)(dx^0)(dx^i)+...$$
where I assume that $g_{\mu\nu}$ is a function of $(x^0,x^i),\ i=1,...,d-1$ with $(d-1)$ being the number of spatial dimensions of your spacetime.
If the spacetime is static, then the various components of the metric does not depend on the time-like coordinate, i.e. $x^0$
$$d\tilde{s}^2\rightarrow ds^2=g_{00}(x^i)(dx^0)^2+2g_{0i}(x^i)(dx^0)(dx^i)+...$$
Furthermore, as you correctly state, static also implies that the line element
is invariant under a time reversal about any origin of time
This simply means that if I pefrom the transformation $x^0\rightarrow-x^0\Rightarrow dx^0\rightarrow-dx^0$, then the cross terms in the infinitesimal line element
$$g_{0i}(dx^0)d(x^i)\rightarrow -g_{0i}(dx^0)d(x^i)$$
with the remaining terms remaining unaffected by this coordinate transformation. The only way the line element remaining the same under such "time-reversal" transformation, is $g_{0i}=0$.
I hope this helps.
EDIT: So, after reading your comments, I think I can add something to clarify some concerns of yours (if I understand them correctly). Assume a spacetime that is not static, i.e. $g_{\mu\nu}=g_{\mu\nu}(x^0,x^i)$. Then, yes, you are right, performing time reversal transformations would not alter the (scalar) line element in any way and
$$g_{0i}(x^0,x^i)dx^0dx^i\rightarrow
-g_{0i}(-x^0,x^i)dx^0dx^i$$
This is not really helpful, since you don't know the dependence of $g_{\mu\nu}$ on the temporal coordinate. So, the invariance of the metric in this (a bit more complicated case) can only imply that
$$g_{0i}(x^0,x^i)=
-G_{0i}(-x^0,x^i)$$
where I have used another letter (capital G) to denote the new metric in the transformed coordinates. So, saying that the spacetime is static means that we force the metric elements to be time-independent, such that when we impose "time-reversal" symmetry on the scalar infinitesimal line element, we obtain this vanishing of the metric cross terms.