Let's calculate the difference in force, $\Delta F$, experienced by the rocks. Because $\Delta r$ is very small compared to $r$,
$$\Delta F = F_{\text{out}} - F_{\text{in}} \approx\frac{dF}{dr}\Delta r = -\frac{2GMm}{r^3} \Delta r.$$
What's the significance of that $dF/dr \times\Delta r$? Or in a general case $y = dy/dx \times \Delta x$? What's with this $\Delta x/dx$?
Please tell me which topic it is so I can just study it . I'm searching book after books. Sorry for uploading image. Downvotes are welcomed but just tell me from where to study it and then you can close my question.