First of all, I am a noob in physics (I‘m a computer scientist) and started reading Hawking‘s „A brief history of time“. In Chapter 6 he says that “electromagnetic force [...] interacts with electrically charged particles like electrons and quarks, but not with uncharged particles such as gravitons.”
My question now: how come that extremely massiv object are able to bend light (e.g. we are able to see distant stars that are behind the sun)? I mean, how can gravitation (actually gravitons) affect photons if gravitons are not charged?
I know that there are some questions here that go in the same direction but as I‘m a noob in physics, I don‘t quite get the answers.
I‘d appreciate if someone had a laymen‘s explanation for this that not necessarily covers all different aspects (I might pose some follow-up questions) but explains the essence.
Thanks to y‘all!