Someone mentioned in chat the possibility of interpersonal conflicts between Stack Exchange participants spilling over into the real world and resulting in socially inappropriate behavior off-site.
Does the Code of Conduct (CoC) regulate our behavior off-site as it pertains to interactions with or affecting the community or company? Another way of asking the same question is whether the CoC has extraterritorial jurisdiction. For example, if I want to post a message on Reddit about my experiences on Stack Exchange, is it sufficient to obey Reddit's code of conduct or do I need to be concerned about potentially being suspended on Stack Exchange if my behavior would have been improper if it had been done here?
There are arguably two main possible scenarios here:
- The behavior would be in violation of the CoC if done here, but is allowed according to the rules of the venue in which it is actually performed. An example of this would be me joining a website that permits hate speech (they do exist, though I will refrain from naming a specific example here) and posting racially abusive speech about a specific, named Stack Exchange participant on it. When Stack Exchange (SE) moderators suspend me on SE sites, I appeal, arguing that my speech didn't violate any code of conduct since my speech didn't violate the code of conduct of the place where it was made and the SE Code of Conduct doesn't apply to that site.
- The behavior is a violation both here and there, but the other venue already has a system in place to investigate violations and issue sanctions (e.g. being banned from Reddit, having one's Tweets drastically rate-limited, expulsion from a university, being escorted out of the mall, etc.). In law, this principle is sometimes referred to as "double criminality". An example of this would be me posting racially abusive speech on Reddit about a specific, named Stack Exchange participant. When Stack Exchange moderators suspend me from SE sites, I appeal, arguing that while my speech might have violated a code of conduct, it didn't violate Stack Exchange's code of conduct since the behavior didn't happen on Stack Exchange systems and thus only Reddit moderators, not Stack Exchange moderators, have jurisdiction to sit in judgment over my behavior and determine the appropriate response.
If Stack Exchange's response would be different depending on which of the above happens, what is the rule?
In response to a comment by Tinkeringbell, if I want to interact with Stack Exchange participants off-site and/or engage in behavior potentially affecting them, do I have to follow the SE CoC in order to not get banned here or do I simply need to obey the rules of the venue where I am?
In response to a comment by Sonic, Wikipedia's concept of "off-wiki harassment" could apply here. That is, does Stack Exchange prohibit or provide for specific remedies for "off-Stack harassment" or does it defer judgment over such off-site activity to the codes of conduct and moderation regimes of the places where said harassment might occur? For example, if someone uses Wikipedia as the venue to engage in a harassment campaign against a Stack Exchange user, then Stack Exchange will refer and defer any complaints about said harassment to Wikipedia's moderators/moderation regime and accept their judgments (e.g. being warned, rate limited, or kicked off the site) as the sole and final remedy for the harassment in question. Similarly, if I complain to Meta Stack Exchange (MSE) moderators that another fellow MSE participant walked up to me at the local mall yesterday and consistently and obstinately misgendered me, will the moderators tell me that my complaint belongs with mall security or will they consider warning or suspending the user here on MSE for the misgendering?
In a nutshell, my question isn't really about what sort of behavior is or is not acceptable or should or should not be acceptable in your vision of an ideal society, but on the jurisdiction of the SE CoC and the moderators and the staff who enforce it. One potential problem with deciding that the SE CoC continues to apply to users when they are off-site is that it invites other sites, communities, organizations, etc. to impose their own rules on what happens on Stack Exchange.
Catija gave an example of a Stack Exchange user who had their question closed here, and then retaliates by looking up the user offline and sending them death threats using a non-Stack Exchange medium. That could apply. Another example could be the user with the closed question doxxing the closing user using non-SE resources, finding out they are transgender, and posting their deadname on Reddit along with their photo and other personal details. Would Stack Exchange moderators consider this to be within their jurisdiction since it began on and/or affects SE, or would they tell the doxxed user that the need to raise their complaint with Reddit moderators so that they can evaluate whether deadnaming or doxxing are against Reddit rules, and if so, what an appropriate moderation response would be?
they'll have to prove it's really you.
They should have to prove it's really you, but I don't think you can count on that. SE hasn't entered into any agreement with you that enforces fair treatment or any particular standard of evidence, other than "their sole discretion"