I would like to summarize somehow.
Suppose the topological spaces $(X,\mathcal T),(Y,\mathcal T')$, where $X,Y$ nonempty sets. If they are homeomorphic, i.e. there exists a bicontinuous map $\phi:(X,\mathcal T)\to(Y,\mathcal T')$, then the open sets are preserved:
We have $G\in \mathcal T'\implies \phi^{-1}(G):=U\in \mathcal T\implies G=\phi (U)\in \mathcal T'$, for $\phi$ is a homeomorphism, thus it is an open map and its inverse is an open map too. Hence $\mathcal T'=\{\phi (U)|U\in \mathcal T\}$. Similarly $\mathcal T=\{\phi^{-1}(V)|V\in \mathcal T'\}$.
Let $(X,\mathcal T)\simeq (X, \mathcal T')$. These homeomorphic topological spaces on the same underlying set $X$ do not need to share the same topology (i.e. $\mathcal T=\mathcal T'$). As a counterexample we can consider $\mathcal T, \mathcal T'$ as the Sierpiński topologies with their singleton different.
Finally, if $(X, \mathcal T)$ is metrizable, i.e. there is a metric $d:X^2\to \Bbb R$ such that $\mathcal T=\mathcal T_d$, then $(X, \mathcal T),(X,\mathcal T_d)$ are homeomorphic under the identity map $\rm id_X$$:X\to X$. Finally, if $(X, \mathcal T)\simeq (X,\mathcal T_d)$ for some metric $d:X^2\to\Bbb R$, then the topological space is metrizable:
Consider the metric $\rho (x,y):=d(\phi(x), \phi(y))$ for $x,y\in X$. Use the equality $\phi (B_{\rho}(x,\epsilon))=B_d(\phi (x), \epsilon)$ to prove that $U\in \mathcal T_{\rho}\iff U\in \mathcal T$.