Are there any established words for people who have kids but regret it, and for people who don't regret it? In other words, can you complete the following table?
Don't have kids | Have kids | |
---|---|---|
Don't want kids | Childfree | ? |
Want kids | Childless | ? |
Are there any established words for people who have kids but regret it, and for people who don't regret it? In other words, can you complete the following table?
Don't have kids | Have kids | |
---|---|---|
Don't want kids | Childfree | ? |
Want kids | Childless | ? |
People who don't have children are referred to as "childless" whether they wanted to have children or not. If someone said, "I am glad that I am childless", no one would consider that an odd combination of words in any way.
"Childfree" is used but rare. According to Google Ngrams, "childless" is about 25 times as common as "childfree". "Free" implies absence of a burden, so someone who wanted children would be unlikely to call themselves "childfree".
The word for people who have children is "parents". Again, whether they want them or not. You can say, "I really regret becoming a parent", or "I am very happy to be a parent."
I would argue the term “Baby daddy” has been used to describe fathers who regret having their children and “baby mamas” for mothers who regret having theirs.
It’s an infantile and derogatory word that I think disrespects the dignity of the child in question.
This is majorly anecdotal, and because I’m chronically online, I have noticed people who are passionately invested in raising children use words like parenting or co-parenting. And bio-father bio-mother and technical terms.
But when speaking to people or watching content of people who seem frustrated or annoyed with their children and regret it, I found refer to their other half as their baby mama and/or baby daddy.