Last summer I was traveling and I stopped for mass in another state. Throughout mass I was rather uncomfortable due the celebrant's demeanor/conduct, but I brushed it off as "just a bad case of progressivism." After mass I asked him to hear my confession, so we went to the confessional and began the standard process.
Without disclosing the exact sins that were confessed, I will clarify a few things:
- Every sin I confessed has been officially recognized as sin by the Catholic church since her beginning (and before that, by Judaism).
- Some sins caused direct injury (without being specific, either spiritual, emotional, or physical) to another person.
- I have confirmed with numerous other clergy that the things confessed were indeed sinful.
Throughout my confession, the priest interrupted me many times to say, "so what?" or, "that's not a sin." I expressed the desire to help those affected by my sins come to healing, and the advice was, "Tell them to get over it!" I spent more time arguing that my sins are indeed sins than I did giving my confession. In complete honesty, it felt like I was speaking to an atheist clown at a circus and he was mocking me for my moral consciousness.
I know with certainty the priest was wrong in this scenario, and I am afraid that he will lead others astray from salvation and into sin. However, I do not know how to make sure the matter is addressed appropriately and sufficiently resolved. I believe the best course of action is to report this to the diocese, but at the same time I am afraid that my experience was just a symptom of the diocese's own potential corruption (specifically, the administration). Also, I do not know how to submit such a report.
How should I go about resolving this?