Metal ion complexes have stepwise stability constants:
\begin{align}
\ce{[Cu(H2O)6]^2+ + NH3 &<=>[$K_1$] [Cu(NH3)(H2O)5]^2+ + H2O}\\
\ce{[Cu(NH3)(H2O)5]^2+ + NH3 &<=>[$K_2$] [Cu(NH3)2(H2O)4]^2+ + H2O}\\
\ce{[Cu(NH3)2(H2O)4]^2+ + NH3 &<=>[$K_3$] [Cu(NH3)3(H2O)3]^2+ + H2O}\\
\ce{[Cu(NH3)3(H2O)3]^2+ + NH3 &<=>[$K_4$] [Cu(NH3)4(H2O)2]^2+ + H2O}\\
\ce{[Cu(NH3)4(H2O)2]^2+ + NH3 &<=>[$K_5$] [Cu(NH3)5(H2O)]^2+ + H2O}\\
\ce{[Cu(NH3)5(H2O)]^2+ + NH3 &<=>[$K_6$] [Cu(NH3)6]^2+ + H2O}\\
\end{align}
with
\begin{align}
K_1 &= \frac{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)(H2O)5]^2+} \right]}}{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(H2O)6]^2+} \right]\left[ \ce{NH3} \right]}}\\
K_2 &= \frac{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)2(H2O)4]^2+} \right]}}{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)(H2O)5]^2+} \right]\left[ \ce{NH3} \right]}}\\
K_3 &= \frac{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)3(H2O)3]^2+} \right]}}{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)2(H2O)4]^2+} \right]\left[ \ce{NH3} \right]}}\\
K_4 &= \frac{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)4(H2O)2]^2+} \right]}}{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)3(H2O)3]^2+} \right]\left[ \ce{NH3} \right]}}\\
K_5 &= \frac{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)5(H2O)]^2+} \right]}}{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)4(H2O)2]^2+} \right]\left[ \ce{NH3} \right]}}\\
K_6 &= \frac{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)6]^2+} \right]}}{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)5(H2O)]^2+} \right]\left[ \ce{NH3} \right]}}\\
\end{align}
The overall stability constant is:
$$K_\text{B} = \frac{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(NH3)6]^2+} \right]}}{{\left[ \ce{[Cu(H2O)6]^2+} \right]\left[ \ce{NH3} \right]^6}} = K_1 \cdot K_2 \cdot K_3 \cdot K_4 \cdot K_5 \cdot K_6$$
(In particular, note the exponent 6.)
Furthermore, usually $K_i/K_{i+1}>1$; thus, $K_1 > K_2 > K_3 > K_4 > K_5 > K_6$. Consequently, it gets more and more difficult to exchange further ligands.
Therefore, the predominating complex strongly depends on the concentration of $\ce{NH3}$.
And you probably work with dilute aqueous solutions.
Simply speaking, the missing $\ce{[Cu(NH3)6]^2+}$ in aqueous solution can be attributed to the high concentration of water which is competing with ammonia for the coordination sites.