I am sure I am asking a very basic question but before coming here, I have made multiple attempts to find an answer elsewhere. Or maybe I am simply asking the wrong question, in some sense. If someone could nudge me in the right direction, I would be infinitely grateful to them. Here is what I am trying to understand:
A hydrogen cation added to a hydroxide ion forms water, which is neutral. A lithium cation added to a hydroxide forms LiOH, which is a strong base completely dissociating in a solution. Now, I understand why LiOH should be more alkaline than H2O. What I cannot understand is why it is so much more alkaline? Intuitively, one might expect a more gradual transition going from H to K. After all, H and Li are neighboring elements from the same group, with the same structure of the electron outer shell. Moreover, H in H2O is locked in a covalent bond whereas Li in LiOH is locked in an ionic bond. Ionic bonds are generally considered to be (much) stronger. Why is it not so in this case?