Among isolable species, arguably the closest thing there is to an ammonium anion can be seen in ammine magnesium borohydride, $\ce{Mg(BH4)2•2NH3}$[1]. In this compound hydridic (negatively charged) hydrogen is dihydrogen-bonded to the protic hydrogen in the ammonia. In the molecular-orbital rendering of hydrogen bonding, the electrons from the boron-hydrogen bond overlap with the formally vacant antibonding orbitals from the ammonia (both of these being orbitals polarized towards hydrogen) to delocalize the bonding into the "intermolecular" region. No contribution from outer orbitals on the nitrogen are involved as this is a hydrogen-hydrogen interaction.
As with other cases of hydrogen bonding, the electron source (borohydride hydrogen) remains bonded primarily bonded within its own "molecule" (meaning to boron); the dihydrogen bond is only a secondary interaction. Were the boron-hydrogen bond to be broken, for instance by by thermal decomposition, the hydridic and protic hydrogens would simply combine to form $\ce{H2}$ (hydrogen evolution on heating is the intended result in the referenced study).
Transient ammonia-hydride species have been identified using photoelectron spectroscopy. Snodgrass et al[2] identify $\ce{H^-(NH3)}$ and $\ce{H^-(NH3)2}$, which are considered hydride ions solvated by ammonia molecules and thus would involve protic-hydridic interactions similar to that in the complex borohydride salt described above. They also found a peak attributed to a tetrahedral $\ce{NH4^-}$ isomer in which all the hydrogens are positive; an ordinary ammonium ion accompanied by two Rydberg electrons. Diaz-Tonoco and Ortixz[3] give ab initio calculations supporting the Rydberg configuration and extend the concept to higher $\ce{N_mH_{3m+1}}^-$ species.
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Grigorii Soloveichik, Jae-Hyuk Her, Peter W. Stephens, Yan Gao, Job Rijssenbeek, Matt Andrus, and J.-C. Zhao (2008). "Ammine Magnesium Borohydride Complex as a New Material for Hydrogen Storage: Structure and Properties of Mg(BH4)2·2NH3". Inorg. Chem. 47, 10, 4290–4298.
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Joseph T. Snodgrass, James V. Coe, Carl B. Freidhoff, Kevin M. McHugh and Kit H. Bowen (1988). "Photodetachment spectroscopy of cluster anions. Photoelectron spectroscopy of H–(NH3)1, H–(NH3)2 and the tetrahedral isomer of NH4-". Faraday Discuss. Chem. Soc., 86, 241-256, https://doi.org/10.1039/DC9888600241.
Manuel Díaz-Tinoco, J. V. Ortiz (3019). "Double Rydberg anions with solvated ammonium kernels: Electron binding energies and Dyson orbitals ". _J. Chem. Phys. 151, 054301. https://doi.org/10.1063/1.5113614.