My spouse will soon start an internship in the US, and we are exploring options for me to join her. The financial limitations of her stipend mean that I would need to secure employment to support our stay. Coincidentally, I am completing my PhD and considering a postdoc position that could align with this timeline. I believe I could significantly contribute to her supervisor's lab, given my relevant skills and experience. I am contemplating a short-term (6-12 months) postdoc position with her supervisor, with the understanding that I might need to transition to remote work after the initial 6 months due to personal commitments back home. I have prior experience working remotely with positive outcomes and references. This plan is for the beginning of 2025, so there could be enough time to look for potential funding.
I seek advice on the best approach to propose this arrangement to the supervisor. Should the initial contact be made by me directly or through my spouse? Additionally, how common are such arrangements in academic settings, and what considerations should I be aware of to make my proposal as appealing and feasible as possible?