I received a phone call from the department chair informing me that they are willing to give me an offer. Then, he sent me the startup sheet and asked me to send them my comments. This sheet contains salary, student support, travel, moving expenses, and a few other items. The chair also asked me to add any equipment I need and he made it clear that he will push as much as he can because it will be beneficial to the department whatever I can get from the university for my startup in terms of equipment.
For this position, I plan to join the target university (R1 university) as an associate professor, and thus the salary is a bit confusing for me since the salary for other department members is not online. My current institution is giving me, let's say $100K but they also give me 20-30K in the summer to stabilize my salary due to declining my previous request on raising my base salary during COVID. However, the destination university is giving me $120K as my base payment [these numbers are just random numbers :)].
I have two questions:
I am not sure how I should talk about my salary. Because the base payment of the destination university is higher but the total payment is lower!
I also need to ask them about my spouse and her employment. I am not sure if I should bring this up now or should wait until I finalize my offer and then ask them about a dual career. I am not sure when the right time is. If I bring this up now, then, they might not fully consider my requests on salary and other items. If I also bring this up later, they might say why I have delayed it since spousal hiring needs a long process and discussion. When do people discuss this matter based on your experience?