I hope everyone is well. I would like some advice about accepting PhD offers/waiting for the 'perfect' phd.
I don't want to over-explain my situation, but I think the background is important, as I am struggling with where I stand as a candidate (my chances of getting a phd, so I want to explain a little)..
Here is my situation in terms of grades/experience:
I had a hard time at uni with mental health and working too much to support myself financially in 2nd-3rd year causing me to fail an entire semester (i pushed through which give me confidence that I am capable - I was not given this opportunity to redo the year and my grades are on my transcript (sometimes they take them off if you have mitigating circumstances, which I never claimed for during this time.)
I did a summer project which led to publication in field of astrochemistry- best summer ever - decided I love physics and started thinking about phd.
Final year (Integrated MPhys) I found my feet and decided I love research and got a First class that year (80%+ in my project)
I graduated with an overall 2:1 MPhys (just) and have not-so-great-grades on my transcipt from the 2nd and 3rd year (a few fails in more complex topics such as theoretical and cosmology)
I am interested in high energy cosmology/astrophysics, but I have a love for the environment too and obviously climate change is super relevant and important.
Because of my grades/experience, I never thought I would be good enough to do a PhD, but in my final year I loved it so much and managed to get the grades to be able to pursue one if I wanted to.
------------ Fast forward 6 months ------------
Finally decided research is definitely what I want to do. I missed all the deadlines (my new job took over and I not 100% sure what field I want to go into). I applied late to a PhD (funding was late so timing was perfect) related to atmospheric physics in the department of environmental science : when I saw it it seemed to tick most of my boxes:
location
supervisor
physics/climate science which I love
multidisciplinary research group (lots of exposure) and really lovely team (important to me as I am a people person)
I got accepted, which to me was a surprise. I got through on the basis of a face-to-face interview and a CV. Was this a lucky coincidence or am I actually a good candidate?
Here's the but: I love astronomy, radio astronomy, high energy particle physics and cosmology and have experience in these fields - they are challenging (which scares me) but also is exciting. However, very competitive. I am afraid my grades are not good enough for these topics and my chances of getting a phd within this field, at a good institution are slim. Also, it is possible I am not 'good' at these subjects due to failed past grades. This being said, my research in these topics has always been very high standard in labs and projects. Do grades really matter? This is super difficult for me to decide what avenue of research to go down, as I have so many interests, and a PhD is a huge commitment - I want to make sure I am the right fit.
---- Summary -----
I have a great offer from a fantastic uni in a topic i love (climate/environmental science), but its not physics and I am worried I wont enjoy it or regret my choice.
Should I accept the offer because I was lucky enough to bag one, in a topic I do love, but giving up another love of mine: astronomy and risk not getting a PhD at all.
I also feel super guilty that I have un-officially had an offer for some time and another candidate could have my position so there is some time sensitivity on this.
I am also worried about wasting another year. I have taken this academic year off to work in order to save, pay off debts and get myself in a better financial situation to avoid what happened previously. This PhD will be starting in September 2020, however, if I decline, I will have to wait another year before I can apply again - I really dont like my job (not relevant to my future and I am not learning anything that will improve my CV) and getting a new one I like, or doing research internships is unlikely at the moment due to lockdown.
Apologies for the long winded and detailed post but I hope someone can relate and offer some advice on the matter.