The question is how to force Windows 7 to REMOVE items from my RAM when they are no longer in use.
Because this question is met with 100% resistance I'm going to clarify this once...
This question is NOT the opposite, not why I should buy more memory, not why I should kill my SSD with a pagefile because it's not 1985 and 16K doesn't cost five grand, it's not about why I should leave files in memory that clearly aren't being used and it is NOT a debate of any kind. With that out of the way on to competent computing...
I just starting playing Elder Scrolls Online and with 8GB of RAM, disabled pagefile and disabled Superfetch there should be no reason why 2GB from ESO and 1GB from Firefox should mean I've run out of RAM. Windows 7 is VERY clearly leaving items in memory even though I've EXPLICITLY disabled the Superfetch service.
Example: using RamMap I see that after clearing out all the memory there is still a 111 megabytes are currently being used by a movie file I watched for dinner three nights ago...not WHY but HOW do I prevent Windows from mindlessly wasting RAM like this?
In other words how do I force Windows to unload files from the RAM when the programs that were using them have themselves been closed? Please only answer if you plan to not deviate from my VERY clearly defined question. Windows is it's own problem when it complains I'm low on RAM when I have plenty and it's just wasting it.