I search around a little be on the web but except for going for 2nd
week Tuesday patches I didn't find any solution. Is the option gone
for good or is it still accessible?
If you go into Windows 10 Updates, Advanced Options and look at that list, all that is available in the newest Windows 10 versions is to Pause Updates.
You can pause for about 30 days, at which point updates will happen any way. Pretty much the same for Windows 11 as well (done via Update Policy settings).
In either case, you cannot do just Security updates and not Feature upgrades.
You can look at Long Term Service versions to help you for a period of time, but not indefinitely.
Also if in a Corporate environment with WSUS, you can have more management capabilities. But even Corporations will update at some point (more frequently than annually). Some security updates get mashed into Cumulative updates. I have seen this before.
Some people - I have seen it at customers and I have seen it here - shoot themselves in the foot by not updating.
After 6 years with Windows 10 and nearly a year with Windows 11, I do not recommend failing to update. That causes more problems than it solves.