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Pamela Stephenson Connolly

Pamela Stephenson Connolly is patron of COSRT (College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists) corst.org.uk

September 2023

  • Woman standing by a window

    Sexual healing
    My exhibitionist girlfriend likes sex with the curtains open

    It is a new relationship and I am finding it difficult to tell her that this makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?
  • My fear of not being good in bed means I’m scared of intimacy

    Sexual healing
    I have intrusive thoughts about sex and avoid all relationships

    I worry that I might not be good in bed, that my body is not attractive or that I might get pregnant
  • Sexual Healing image posed by models of a woman and man sitting far apart, looking stressed.

    Sexual healing
    My boyfriend is instantly aroused – and climaxes without touching me

    I wish he could maintain an erection, but he is sleep-deprived, stressed and drinks too much. What can I do to help him change his behaviour?

August 2023

  • ‘I feel resentful that something that used to be a core part of our relationship has just disappeared.’ (Posed by models).

    Sexual healing
    My wife has lost all interest in sex. We haven’t made love for three years – and she won’t get help

    We are great friends and enjoy each other’s company, but I miss the intimacy
  • Young man looking nervous

    Sexual healing
    Will I ever have sex? When I tried I couldn’t get an erection and the girl told all her friends

    I’m 22, a virgin and scared. How can I get my confidence back?
    • Sexual healing
      My partner says he doesn’t fancy me, because we are both too ‘old and wrinkled’

    • Sexual healing
      My partner’s vagina has atrophied – and she is struggling to reach climax

    • Sexual healing
      My husband turns me on – but I can’t stay lubricated during sex

July 2023

  • SHforeplay2

    Sexual healing
    I recently got sober – and have stopped enjoying sex with my husband

  • ‘He is happy seeing me climax, but I feel as if I am failing him …’

    Sexual healing
    I have a generous new sexual partner - but I can’t get him to climax. Am I failing him?

  • Body shame illustration

    Sexual healing
    I would like a partner – but I can’t imagine revealing my body to a man again

  • Sexual healing illustration

    Sexual healing
    My wife and I have stopped having sex. Are my fetishes to blame?

June 2023

  • Composite illustration showing a man grasping a woman around the waist from behind

    Sexual healing
    I moved my date’s hand off my breast and he took it badly. Should I have said something instead?

  • Sexual Healing 230620 I'm still a virgin

    Sexual healing
    I am 25 and have never been kissed. Have I missed my chance?

  • Sexual Healing OnTop Can only orgasm when on top 230613

    Sexual healing
    I can only climax in one position. Why do my lovers try to talk me out of it?

  • ‘No matter how much I explain my hurt, he continues to do it’ (posed by models).

    Sexual healing
    My husband watches porn during sex. It makes me feel useless and unattractive

May 2023

  • Sexual Healing - the way I masturbate making it harder for me to ejaculate during sex?

    Sexual healing
    I have never been able to climax during sex. Is my masturbation style to blame?

    Sex with my first partner has been great for both of us, but I would like to learn how to become a more satisfied and satisfying lover
  • SH penetration 25May

    Sexual healing
    I’ve met a man and want to start a family – but I’m scared of penetration

    I’m 26 and in love. How do I get over this fear?
  • Man sitting on bed looking glum while woman lies in bed, looking in different directions.

    Sexual healing
    My wife said her ex was a better lover than me – and we haven’t had sex since

    That was almost 20 years ago and we now have separate bedrooms. Is there any way back?

April 2023

  • Woman holding her head and being comforted by a man (posed by models)

    Sexual healing
    I have panic attacks during sex – and it is torturing my husband

    Anxiety and depression have severely affected my libido, and I am facing the prospect of a sexless marriage
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