What are the differences between needs and desires? Oftentimes, people in relationships say they need something and expect their needs to be met by the other person. However, wanting a man who has his own apartment, for example, is not a need – it’s a want. So what’s the difference here and how to know if my needs are needs or just desires? Click to Read more about why self love is important in a relationship and why it's your way to authenticity and expressing your needs.