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Putting yourself out there is terrifying... but when you don't take things personally, that's when you can stop being scared. Because people who hate on you are usually not in a good place themselves. I've never had someone more successful hate on my business. I've never had someone with a huge following bash my posts. I've never had someone who is super fit talk down on my training. People who feel threatened are the ones who threaten you. Remember that. And 99% of the time, when someone trolls you, hates on you, it's from someone who doesn't know you. Someone who has no clue what you've been through and what your intentions are. So don't take it personally, it's usually not about you. It's them. It's worth it to keep going. Make your mark, live your legend 🤘🏽 and keep your peace. ❤️ Howie Share this with someone who needs to hear this today! ♻️
I learned the hard way
You're so right, the loudest critics are usually the ones dealing with their own stuff. I always remind myself, "If they're throwing shade, it's probably because they need to cool down their own insecurities." Plus, isn't it wild how the people who cheer the loudest for you are often the ones who know the struggle? It's like a secret club of mutual respect and support. 🤘🏼
Negative comments often reflect the insecurities of the person making them, not your worth.
People who hate on you are usually not in a good place themselves 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯 Howie Chan. Sharing this is so important given the various ways people sometimes show up. Bravo!
When people hate on you It says more about them than it says about you!
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View criticism as an opportunity to learn: - Use feedback to improve and grow. - Keep moving forward despite criticism. - Stay confident in your abilities and value. - Don’t take negative feedback personally. - know that everyone has their own challenges. Thank you for sharing such valuable insights, Howie Chan!!
Mita Mallick
1w
This perspective so important: Because people who hate on you are usually not in a good place themselves. Howie Chan 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Howie, your point about negativity often coming from those who don't know us is eye-opening. It's a powerful reminder to stay focused on our own journey and maintain our inner peace.
I coach today's professionals to become tomorrow's leaders 🚀 | Certified High-Performance Coach.
1wKeep doing you and let the trolls troll.