Being a mother is the hardest job I’ve ever had, yet we are not encouraged to list the position anywhere on a resume or a site like this one. It is never considered that, while we toil away at a “day job,” the work and dedication never ends when we transition to focus on our children and family. So beyond celebrating all of you amazing women who parent a child in some way—biologically, emotionally or spiritually—let’s take a moment to list out just some of the skills it takes to deliver on what we all do:
* Highly functioning operations leader for a small group of varying ages, from newborn to grown (often male) adult
* Masterful at calendaring and logistics ensuring on-time arrivals, departures and coordination with other small people in need of transport
* Certified safe driver trained to focus during loud music, in-car arguments, pet angst and/or mansplained directions
* Reliable long distance driver often to youth sporting events between 1-4 hours both ways in traffic at 6 am, mostly all day on weekends
* Adept at accounting and budgeting for timely payments to utilities, state and government entities, schools and religious institutions designed to drain savings accounts and restrict buying of anything nice for yourself
* Exceptional food making skills ranging from five star chef to short order cook; service can include from 3-8 meals per day + snacks
* Experienced food server, table setter and dishwasher when all other co-workers and teammates are otherwise engaged
* Qualified tutor and educator of elementary/middle/high school topics learned 20+ years prior or via current YouTube videos
* Sideline or on-field coach of nearly any sport or activity that can be tried; often serving dual roles as team manager and cheer squad
* Planner of birthday parties, school and team events, vacations and all other celebratory occasions for others; sometimes includes planning your own party
* Cleaner of dirty forks left in rooms, food wrappers shoved in drawers, backpacks piled in the hallway, smelly PE clothes and other unkept items that arise
* Feeder and walker of the dog others so desperately wanted and promised to care for and don’t
* Volunteer at school, church/temple, sports or whatever can be fit in between all the other things and signed up for on a spreadsheet or app
* Dispensary of cash to the young and unemployed often perceived as always available at any time for any need
* Disciplinarian when unbelievably stupid things transpire and a need arises for a heavy hand of guidance
* Purveyor of love, support and hugs in the best of times and hardest of times
I’m sure I missed countless other skills so please feel free to add on. Cheers to all you do and all that you are, moms! You are the GOAT of all GOATs — I see you and appreciate you on this day and always.
Founder of FlexJobs & Remote.co / Long-time leader in remote work
1moVery cool, and exciting to see all of the female leadership!