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The Book of Charlie: Wisdom from the Remarkable American Life of a 109-Year-Old Man

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One of our nation’s most prominent writers finds the truth about how to live a long and happy life in the centenarian next door.

When a veteran Washington journalist moved to Kansas, he met a new neighbor who was more than a century old. Little did he know that he was beginning a long friendship—and a profound lesson in the meaning of life. Charlie White was no ordinary neighbor. Born before radio, Charlie lived long enough to use a smartphone. When a shocking tragedy interrupted his idyllic boyhood, Charlie mastered survival strategies that reflect thousands of years of human wisdom. Thus armored, Charlie’s sense of adventure carried him on an epic journey across the continent, and later found him swinging across bandstands of the Jazz Age, racing aboard ambulances through Depression-era gangster wars, improvising techniques for early open-heart surgery, and cruising the Amazon as a guest of Peru’s president.

David Von Drehle came to understand that Charlie’s resilience and willingness to grow made this remarkable neighbor a master in the art of thriving through times of dramatic change. As a gift to his children, he set out to tell Charlie’s secrets. The Book of Charlie is a gospel of grit—the inspiring story of one man’s journey through a century of upheaval. The history that unfolds through Charlie’s story reminds you that the United States has always been a divided nation, a questing nation, an inventive nation—a nation of Charlies in the rollercoaster pursuit of a good and meaningful life.

194 pages, Hardcover

First published May 23, 2023

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David von Drehle

19 books166 followers
David von Drehle is the author of three previous books, including the award-winning Triangle, a history of the Triangle shirtwaist factory fire that The New York Times called "social history at its best." An editor-at-large at Time magazine, he and his family live in Kansas City, Missouri.

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Profile Image for Dez the Bookworm.
369 reviews225 followers
October 8, 2023
An intriguing look into the life of a centenarian.

Told from the perspective of the Author (who was the neighbor), we get a glimpse into the life of a man whose lived through events that made history around the world. We also get to learn about his adventures, his treasures, his tragedies and his heartache.

Filled with factual information about historical events along the way, I’d have to say about half the book is comprised of Charlie’s story, but interspersed between all the nuggets of events and people in Charlie’s time on earth. It is an amazing story that fosters resiliency, determination and bravery. It shows us that we are all human and what we live through makes us who we are. It was both heartwarming and heartbreaking at times.

A relatively short read, I’m glad I read it. It was interesting to hear (albeit second hand) what a person thinks and feels that has lived so long. I only hope I get the same opportunity Charlie did.

Thank you to Simon and Schuster for this GR Giveaway!!
Profile Image for Beth.
35 reviews9 followers
August 29, 2023
I wanted to like this book more. It’s about a doctor who lived to he 109. He began practicing medicine before penicillin was used, before there were highways stretching across the US, prior to computers and TVs.
He lived an amazing and amazingly long life.
Yet we hear Charlie’s life through the lens of the author, who is rather heavy handed in creating “lessons learned” and “ways to live” based on his perceptions of what Charlie experienced.
I wish we had heard Charlie’s life in Charlie’s words.
Profile Image for Howard.
387 reviews308 followers
December 23, 2023
[M]y neighbor was, in the sunshine of an August Sunday morning, washing his girlfriend’s car. I couldn’t help but note that the vehicle in question was parked in the same spot where she had left it the night before ….

[He] was bare-chested, dressed only in a pair of old swim trunks. With a garden hose in one hand and a soapy sponge in the other, he flexed his muscular chest with each splash and swirl, while his wavy hair flopped rakishly over one eye.

This was Charlie White.

Age 102
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The year was 2007. David von Drehle and his family had just moved from Washington, D.C. to the suburbs of Kansas City, Missouri, where his wife had grown up. The move was made possible because his paper, The Washington Post, had offered him a job that allowed him to telecommute and thus move away from the East Coast.

It wasn’t long after the move that von Drehle walked outside to get the paper and spied Charlie across the street. He had briefly been introduced to Charlie, but the scene that he observed told him that here was a person that he wanted to know better.

It was the beginning of a seven year friendship that ended when Charlie died the day after his 109th birthday. They spent many hours in Charlie’s den with Charlie telling stories and von Drehle, like a good journalist, listening.

Von Drehle said that he didn’t expect to enjoy a long-lasting relationship with a man who was 102, because "actuarial tables … in a random count of 100,000 men, only about 350 – fewer than half of 1 percent – make it to 102. Among those hardy survivors, the average chap has less than two years remaining. After 104, the lives slip quickly away, like the last grains of sand in an hourglass."

He didn’t mention what the odds were for someone who was 102 to be spending an August morning washing his girlfriend’s car, a girlfriend who had obviously spent the night. Well, how could he? That actuarial table doesn’t exist.

It is difficult to even fathom what changes a person born in 1905 and who lived until 2014 would see and experience. For example, as von Drehle writes:

An American born in the early 1900s who managed to live into the 2000s would have one foot planted in the age of draft animals and diphtheria – a time when only 6 percent of Americans graduated from high school – and the other planted in the age of space stations and robotic surgery…. From women forbidden to vote to women running nations and corporations…. No human foot had ever touched the North or South Pole or the summit of Mount Everest when they were born, yet they lived to see footprints on the moon.


Charlie, as von Drehle discovered, was Dr. Charles White, M.D. In the 1920s, as a medical student in Chicago, he once treated mobsters that were ambushed on the street. During WWII he served in the Army as a physician and was among the first to learn the art of intravenous anesthesiology, which he taught other doctors.

The Book of Charlie (2023) is a biography of a remarkable person, someone who lived more than a century and whose mind and memory never faltered. The subtitle is a foreshadowing of what is contained within its pages: Wisdom from the Remarkable American Life of a 109-Year-Old Man. It is, however, more than that. Along the way von Drehle inserts interesting anecdotes that help elucidate the changing times that Charlie witnessed and experienced during his hundred plus years.
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3,996 reviews919 followers
July 20, 2024
Nobody's going to do it for you. you've got to do your own paddling. So always keep your daubers up--no matter what. ~ Charlie White

Imagine being born in 1905. That is the year Charlie was born. The Civil War was closer in his rear view mirror than the Gulf War is for us in 2024. Speaking of rear view mirrors, he wasn't driving around with one of those for decades. The author penned this inspirational book after spending years hearing Charlie's stories. It was easy to visit Charlie. He lived right across the street!

This heartwarming tale will take you on a roller coaster ride through the 20th century and on into the current millennium. Along the way you will get a firsthand look at the resilience and resolution it takes to live 109 years. One of the most fascinating concepts discussed is that of iterative and incremental development. Charlie had this in spades!

While there were times when I would have liked a little more of a deep dive into Charlie's story, I can't deny that all the local settings and events were a delight to read about. So happy that Charlie was a Kansas City man for much of his life.
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2,057 reviews277 followers
May 12, 2023
*3-3.5 stars. Dr Charlie White lived a remarkably long life (109 years) and accomplished many things, especially in the medical field. The author, David von Drehle, was his neighbor in later years and heard many of Charlie's stories, which he has compiled in this short biography. Von Drehle likes to think Charlie was a Stoic, a person who can endure pain or hardship without showing their feelings or complaining, because Charlie was able to keep an optimistic outlook on life no matter what befell him. 'The lesson, so simple yet so difficult, is that life can be savored even though it contains hardship, disappointment, loss and even brutality. The choice to see its beauty is available to us at every moment.' Definitely words of wisdom.

I received an arc of this book from the author and publisher via NetGalley. My review is voluntary and the opinions expressed are my own.
Profile Image for Clif Hostetler.
1,167 reviews871 followers
October 28, 2023
When the author moved to a Kansas City suburb in 2007 he met his new neighbor who lived across the street from his house named Charlie White who was 102 years old. Beginning is 2007 until 2014 when White died on his 109th birthday, the author had numerous informal conversations with him. Later the author decided the stories he heard from Charlie White deserved to be compiled into this book which was published in 2023.

About halfway through the book at a point where Charlie is beginning his career as a medical doctor, the author summarizes Charlie's life adventures up to that point with the following words:
He had been on his own a long time. When he darted from a train and walked the last miles home from a pedophile's summer camp as an eight-year-old. When he drove halfway across the country on rutted roads and surfed freight trains home at sixteen. When he made himself a musician by listening to the radio and turned that little career into a college education and a trip halfway around the world. When he delivered babies and watched patients die and pumped his own blood into a Chicago gangster.
The second half of the book beyond this point tells stories from his work as a physician and later, after service in World War II, as an anesthesiologist.

Charlie had two failed marriages before finally having a third marriage that lasted. After the death of his third wife he had an extended relationship with a fourth woman with whom he never married. It was the first and second marriages that required some supplemental research beyond Charlie's account. Charlie had told of the mental health problems of his first wife, but it took locating some obscure police records to reveal the details of her tragic and untimely death. The author was able to also track down his second wife, who fortunately was also living to an advanced age, enabling an interview with her to learn her side of their marriage and breakup story.

Charlie's long life was the source of many stories, and he apparently enjoyed sharing them with this book's author. But it is the skilled writing by the author that makes this book worth reading. It's the story of an adventurous youth, varied experiences in midlife as a family doctor, and finally becoming a leading anesthesiologist. Charlie had lived through the twentieth century, an era of great change, and he had the good fortune of living through 109 of those years in good health.
Profile Image for Sharon Huether.
1,604 reviews28 followers
June 13, 2023
Truly a book of inspiration, written about a man that reached the age of 109 and enjoyed a very full life.
In his lifetime he worked hard, he spread joy, he took chances and enjoyed wonders.

A must read.
Profile Image for Jeanine Mcauliffe.
106 reviews1 follower
August 20, 2023
The Book of Charlie was intermittently a story about an interesting and engaging character who lived a very long life and the author’s desire to write a history book - it could have been more Charlie and less history! Charlie lived his life governed by the basic principles that most of us try to follow - his greatest strength was his ultimate resiliency and ‘can do’ attitude in all things. He lived some remarkable stories! A life of over a hundred years spans so much change, innovation, conflict, and advancements - but the author’s segues into history lessons detracted from Charlie’s story and left major gaps in his life - perhaps there weren’t stories of interest over all those missed years? This was a book group choice and left us all feeling that the story could have been much more.
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July 16, 2023
No rating for a book that gets many stars for the majority of readers.

It's just not for me. I'm not at all embedded in the writing style after 20% read- and am truly tired of the lectures. Charlie is interesting and worth a read. But much more so for those who were never there. Because many of us who have lived through "interesting" times, KNOW it doesn't tell like a history book filled with aftermath platitudes.

Being old, it has its drawbacks and also has some joys. Even for those of us in more than average good health. But most of the advice and preaching going on here is valid at any age. That's true. But I don't believe it is perpetually possible to live in the moment. If you ALWAYS do, you do NOT get to over 100- that's for sure.

Sort of ironic that all of the emotive and effusive seem to adore the philosophy of stoics within this book. While the few of us that ARE stoic are continually disdained and abused for not emoting continually and visibly. Just happened this week at a granddaughter's wedding. No Kleenex for me.

So far this year, I think I have tried "old" people book characters a few times too many. Some are actually realistic and interesting. This would be a worthwhile read for most people, especially those who don't know any real history. What they are teaching in many schools, is not much of it at all. History is a piece of its own times and mores and opinions in their proper context and not filled with omissions. And for the last century, also held huge positive advancements in nearly everything physical or mental. Not only for humans. Some of us do remember the days when the ice man came for our ice boxes. Or having no flush anything.

DNF
Profile Image for Mary Leciejewski.
18 reviews2 followers
June 25, 2023
The guy’s life is incredible, but this book isn’t. Ends up being a slog through basic history of the 20th century.
Profile Image for Lori.
1,517 reviews
December 3, 2022
I received a copy of "the Book of Charlie" from NetGalley. David Von Drehle. writes of his neighbor, Charlie White. When he moved into his neighborhood Charlie White was one of his neighbors. He found out that Charlie was 102 years old. The author wanted to know more about this man who was 102 when they met and 109 when he died. For the seven years up to Mr. White's death he wanted to know more about Charlie White's life. He soon found out that Charlie White had quite a life in his 109 years. He lost his father to a freak accident when Charlie was only eight years old. Charlie was very smart and skipped two grades. When he graduated from high school he travelled through the USA with a friend. At first in a model T and on his way home hopping trains. In his life he became a physician practicing way into to his older years. He was in the armed forces during WWII. to name a few things in his life. I do not want to give too many spoilers of his life. But was amazed at the many accomplishments he did over his long life. I found this to be a very interesting read.
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303 reviews172 followers
September 19, 2023
The Book of Charlie is a loving and lovely tribute to the life of Charles White who lived to be 109 years old by embracing everything that life had to offer and understanding the wisdom of living in the present while firmly facing forward. I highly recommend it to all readers.

I received an early drc from the publisher via Netgalley.
Profile Image for Roxanne.
116 reviews4 followers
January 22, 2023
David’s study of Charlie White’s life focuses on how a man makes it to such an age with all his faculties and physical capacities still in place. In Charlie’s case, many of the anecdotes over his life span focus on his lens of seeing life’s challenges through a lens of comedy, joy and/or daring.

Not only does the reader receive a beautifully told life story, Von Drehle, being a true reporter, gives one interesting facts about each time period of Charlie’s life, from the miraculous introduction of Ford’s Model T to radio to modern medicine.
20 reviews
May 29, 2023
chapter 10

The best part of this book was chapter 10 because the words were Charlie’s. I would have liked more of his philosophy.
August 12, 2023
I have a rule that I'll give any book at least 50 pages before putting it down. I have a second rule to avoid any book with the slightest whiff of the saccharine. Unfortunately, I only kept to the former and not the latter with this book.

I take full responsibility: The Book of Charlie and its author were featured on CBS Sunday Morning, a show that routinely has stories aimed at old people looking for a boom to read at their doctor's office. But the story was done in a clever way so as to make it seem like the book would be bit more substantial than the usual entry in the "treachly sub-200 page reflections on a life" book.

And The Book of Charlie starts out with a fairly strong chapter on the subject's resiliency and how some of that could be due to his unwitting adherence to the tenets of Stoicism. Stoicism has become a fad among a host of younger authors in recent years. Writers like Matt Holiday (creator of The Daily Stoic) have for years written about this school of philosophical thought. So it was interesting to see the possible link there with Charlie's life. Unfortunately, we get only a surface treatment.

Thereafter the chapters loll along with far less impact. One posits that Charlie's trip out west and riding the rails back home shows his self reliance. OK, possibly but is that all that interesting? Another links his willingness to use an iPhone well into his 90s and 100s as evidence that adaptability is necessary for living a contented life. Again, not necessarily wrong, but certainly unoriginal and the use of the "cell phones today are so complicated!" trope is worn thin.

So, in the end The Book of Charlie is a diet soda of a book: tastes fine but there's zero caloric content behind it so you can consume this book without any fear of it leaving a mark on your mind's waistline. Like Tuesdays with Morrie and Marley and Me, you can read this book, maybe shed a tear, nod your head in agreement, say "that's so true!" a couple times, and move on.



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505 reviews41 followers
August 29, 2023
I enjoyed hearing Charlie White's life story but didn't care for the overly glowing narration and the author's heavy-handed attempts at teaching us (his selective version of) 100 years of American history and stoicism. Many readers (myself included) had parents, grandparents, or great-grandparents (or older people in our lives who we talked to and learned from before they passed away) who were born around Charlie's birth year of 1905, so we already have a historical context for life back then. It annoyed me how the author kept shoehorning famous people into Charlie's narrative that Charlie never met (i.e., Walt Disney, Ernest Hemingway). I would've preferred that Charlie had written his own life story, if that was even something he wanted to do -- it's unclear from the book whether the author had asked Charlie if he wanted his story told like this posthumously.

Further reading:
The Women with Silver Wings: The Inspiring True Story of the Women Airforce Service Pilots of World War II by Katherine Sharp Landdeck (2020) - because Jean Landis (1918-2022), who was one of these pioneering pilots, is briefly mentioned as Charlie's second wife. This book gives much more context about these women and their wartime service.

The Choice: Embrace the Possible by Edith Eva Eger (2017) - Dr. Eger isn't a centenarian yet (she was born in 1927, and was 90 when this book was published), but this is an excellent memoir about how she overcame significant trauma and how she reflects on her life.
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265 reviews23 followers
July 7, 2023
Let me start out by saying I started this audio book on June 5th 2 days be for I had major surgery (right knee replacement) I developed some severe after effects and suspended all listening and/ or reading. I was finally able to pick this back up, with skimming over what was already read and then to completion of this book within the past 3 days.
This is a really remarkable story number one because our MC started telling his life story to his neighbor at age 106 (he died at 109!! It’s remarkable to hear about life, family raising, jobs, and antidotes through the year. I enjoyed listening to the author who lived next door to Charlie reading his own book.
Profile Image for Beth Menendez.
340 reviews19 followers
May 11, 2023
Absolutely adored this meandering tale of Dr Charlie White who was from my home town. It’s absolutely charming and I loved hearing of my town throughout the decades. It was fun to read about the places o knew about before and after their current development
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1,217 reviews29 followers
June 28, 2023
As compact and efficient as a biography of a normal person you only knew in the last few years of life can get, the writer does a great job of looking at an exceptional human who lived through the 20th century and did some things and learned from them. A fabulous example of the genre.
Profile Image for Nancy.
1,010 reviews5 followers
July 2, 2023
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What an interesting, thoughtful biography! David von Drehle has written a concise, meaningful profile of his neighbor, Dr. Charles White (Charlie), who was born at the beginning of the 20th century and died in the 21st at the remarkable age of 109 years. During his life as the world completely transformed, Charlie rose above childhood trauma, maintained his equilibrium, remained resilient, and sustained intellectual acuity until the very end of his life. He began practicing medicine when few tools or knowledge for healing existed but learned and grew with rapid scientific advances as his profession was profoundly revolutionized during his exceptionally long career.

The history Charlie experienced was fascinating in and of itself, but the true significance of this book is the model he gave for us for our own time. He accepted the inevitable defeats and tragedies of life and then relished the triumphs and joys as they also presented themselves. He did not waste time or energy on negatives he could not change, but instead optimistically sought solutions and new paths forward. He was not a perfect man, but he always remembered and lived by his mother's admonition to "Do the right thing" when difficult choices emerged. That sounds simplistic but for Charlie, and everyone else, "doing the right thing" can often be inconvenient and profoundly difficult.

Charlie White was an ordinary man who lived an extraordinary life for an astondingly long time. He mourned his losses appropriately and then moved forward to enthusiastically meet his future. When asked, he attributed his health and longevity to good fortune, but accepted, as we all must, that his time would run out. He did not obsess with the inevitability of death, one of the most important lessons Charlie has bequeathed us. Rejoice with each hour with no guarantee of the next.

This book was both enjoyable and worthwhile. The author wrote it specifically as a legacy for his children; fortunately he shared it more broadly.
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151 reviews1 follower
December 9, 2023
It’s a solid 3.5 stars.

It’s a quick read at just under 200 pages. I enjoyed most of it but the author dwelled too much on Charlie’s father at the beginning & on historical happenings throughout Charlie’s life that I felt had no bearing on his longevity.

But what a character Charlie was! And the life he led is almost hard to believe. He definitely found the zest for life! He’s to be admired.

Not overly fond of this writer’s style. Example: he felt the need to explain what an obstetric doctor was. Really?!? He injects way too much inconsequential detail. If you can ignore that and just concentrate on all the things Charlie did …well that’s where the gold is.
274 reviews
June 30, 2023
Although I loved the stories of Charlie’s life and his amazing longevity, I felt the author to be a tad repetitive and preachy about stoicism. There is much to reflect on in this book, especially the need to move forward and not dwell on the past and always be standing on tiptoe peeking into the future. One kernel important for me —you are responsible for yourself and you cannot control others behavior, so don’t spend time on that negativity. Move on.
Profile Image for Adriana Brown.
11 reviews1 follower
August 7, 2023
This book was a pleasure to read. I think we all have people in our lives that remind us a little of Charlie. The book reminded me to embrace change and worry less. I especially love that it’s a local story – viewing Kansas City’s expansion over a century through Charlie’s eyes was great, and I learned some new things about our history.
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2,272 reviews183 followers
October 8, 2023
A wonderful book about a life well lived. Charlie’s main quality was his ability to let life come to him.

It was also very different to see the history in the 108 years of his life interlocking with the overall history of the large events of the world.

I recommend highly.
Profile Image for Annette Geiss.
456 reviews23 followers
October 18, 2022
The most delightful, insightful and wonderfully colorful read!! The Book of Charlie is not only an inspiring book but the writing of it must have been a labor of love. An amazing human being, Dr. Charlie White, who lived to the age of 109, a century of living. And what a journey Charlie had in his 109 years! And what he lived through, historically and personally. I can’t recommend this book enough! Kudos to David Von Drehle, for sharing such a heartfelt and extraordinary man’s journey, spanning 100 years. To paraphrase something poignant I read in the book that resounded with me……..sorrow requires no pursuit. It has found you and will find you again. So when pain is hunting elsewhere, enjoy the gifts of each day. Thank you Netgalley and Simon & Schuster for sending this book for review consideration. All opinions are my own. #Netgalley, #TheBookOfCharlie, #simon&schuster,
22 reviews
February 19, 2024
This book lies somewhere between non-fiction and fiction. The author bases his stories mostly off of his memory of conversations with Charlie, which leaves room for extreme bias. The author places his own inferred conclusions on the stories and on Charlie's life. The inference that Charlie was a victim of sexual abuse at the camp he attended as a young boy is not one that the author has the right to make, and if Charlie was abused at the camp he obviously did not want or wasn't ready to tell the story. It betrayed the trust that Charlie put in him by telling the stories. Charlie's story spans decades, was one for the ages, but in the end it is a story of white male privilege. Charlie wouldn't have been able to do many of the things in his life if he had been a woman, a person of color, LGBTQ, or an immigrant. The author took serious liberties with the stories that Charlie told him.
Profile Image for Carrie.
17 reviews
May 18, 2023
Phenomenal storytelling of an amazing man’s life. Thought provoking and heartfelt. We need to stop and find the “Charlie” in our lives.
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68 reviews36 followers
April 25, 2023
Mining the human story for treasured nuggets of insight, perspective, wisdom, and truth telling, Von Drehle is the neighbor who recognizes a man with enough stories to more than fill a book. From childhood through age 109, this story is history in it's most pleasant form, a leisurely flowing with changing times, family, friends, career, and leisure. Some parts are less captivating, mundane even, but such is real life. The observation of the uphill complexities of life-building followed by the progressive downhill journey of simplification of life, in a well and long-lived life is remarkably related in this book. Well worth reading at any age. Thanks to Netgalley for this review copy.
Profile Image for Renée | apuzzledbooklover.
500 reviews6 followers
May 14, 2024
‘Charlie made an art of living.’

The author had the privilege of moving next door to Charlie White, who was then 102 years old. They became great friends. He wasn’t particularly well known or famous, but he lived a long and remarkable life nonetheless. 

‘The lesson, so simple yet so difficult, is that life can be savored even though it contains hardship, disappointment, loss, and even brutality. The choice to see its beauty is available to us at every moment.’

He grew up in the Kansas City area, and experienced many losses in his life. He was also a Dr. and was quite innovative, with many interesting experiences and stories to share. I really enjoy learning about the lives of other people, whether they are famous or not. It’s a great choice to read for #memoirmay. I enjoyed listening to it.
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