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Silk and the Sword: The Women of the Norman Conquest Hardcover – 15 Nov. 2018


The momentous events of 1066, the story of invasion, battle and conquest, are well known. But what of the women? Harold II of England had been with Edith Swanneck for twenty years but in 1066, in order to strengthen his hold on the throne, he married Ealdgyth, sister of two earls. William of Normandy’s Duchess, Matilda of Flanders, had supposedly only agreed to marry the Duke after he’d pulled her pigtails and thrown her in the mud. Harald Hardrada had two wives – apparently at the same time. So, who were these women? What was their real story? And what happened to them after 1066? These are not peripheral figures. Emma of Normandy was a Norman married to both a Saxon and a Dane ‒ and the mother of a king from each. Wife of both King Cnut and Aethelred II, the fact that, according to the Anglo-Saxon Chronicle, she had control of the treasury at the end of the reigns of both Cnut and Harthacnut suggests the extent of Emma’s influence over these two kings –and the country itself. Then there is Saint Margaret, a descendant of Alfred the Great, and the less well known but still influential Gundrada de Warenne, the wife of one of William the Conqueror’s most loyal knights, and one of the few men who it is known beyond doubt was with the Duke at the Battle of Hastings. These are lives full of drama, pathos and sometimes mystery: Edith and Gytha searching the battlefield of Hastings for the body of Harold, his lover and mother united in their grief for the fallen king. Who was Ælfgyva, the lady of the Bayeux Tapestry, portrayed with a naked man at her feet? Silk and the Sword traces the fortunes of the women who had a significant role to play during the Norman Conquest – wives, lovers, sisters, mothers, leaders.

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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 1 November 2023
Brilliant!
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 19 October 2019
It must have been a very difficult book to write because history is not kind to women, even famous ones like Eleanor of Aquitaine, not much is written about them. They are merely footnotes of history. In the eleventh century so many names were similar and so much is lost to us. The majority of these women were extremely courageous and still they get so little written about them. Even the Anglo Saxon Chronicles can’t always agree! I don’t understand why King Philip of Spain managed to exhume St. Margaret and King Malcolm and take them back to Spain - why? Most of this book was the story leading up to the battle of Hastings and after which shows just how little is known. I love the story of Gytha and Edith Swanneck wandering that dreadful battlefield search for Harold, Loefwine and Gryth of course. It is heart rending and I cry every time. I hope they found them all and they were interred at Waltham. Thanks to Henry VIII we have lost the gravesite of our last Anglo Saxon King and so many more. It would be interesting to know who the unknown child is who is buried at Boshum and who was meant to be buried next to her. An interesting book.
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 15 November 2018
What an ingenious concept: to examine the lives of and the roles played by the women related to the more familiar, male, characters involved in the events immediately before and after the Norman Conquest. Silk and the Sword sensibly begins with events which far preceded those of 1066, giving the reader an introduction to the main families involved, and some background information which shows that we cannot take the events of 1066 in isolation, before proceeding to the 'main event'. All the well-known women are here, as one would expect - Emma, Edith of Wessex, Edith 'Swanneck' - but so too are the wives of Harald Hardrada. I knew nothing about these women and I thoroughly enjoyed being whisked across the sea to learn about those close to the man described here as 'the wild card in the events of 1066'. It's easy to forget, because of his ultimate defeat, that he was a powerful ruler whose success in England, had it come, would have seen England absorbed into a Scandinavian empire. I had little idea about his royal pedigree (stretching back through his mother's line to the first king of Norway) nor, indeed, that Harald was married to two women at the same time!
With the inclusion of Matilda of Flanders even the most ardently pro-Saxon reader will be forced to look at things from a different perspective and Gundrada de Warenne, someone I've not read about more than in passing, is given a chapter of her own and the stories behind her alleged parentage fully explored. Great care has been taken to skilfully extract these women from the general narrative and talk about them in isolation, whilst keeping the facts of their lives in context. Inevitably there is crossover, but rather than repeating herself, the author simply signposts where we are, and that we've been here before, but now we're with a different woman and we're looking at things from a different woman's perspective. The author is keen for us to share her knowledge and interest in all the women, although I suspect she might have her favourites. Whilst she gives sympathetic and even-handed treatment to them all, I felt that there was added affection when it came to the poignancy of Edith Swanneck's tale and of Gytha, mother of the Godwine brood. This book is a light, easy read, but it's also full of depth. Whether you are reading about these events for the first time or with a working knowledge of them, the lead-up to and the aftermath of the Conquest, with chapters entitled, for example, 'Grief and Sufferings', give an altogether different viewpoint on proceedings.
(I received a pre-publication copy of this book from the publishers)
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 4 December 2018
I found this a fascinating look at the women of 1066 (both Norman and Anglo-Saxon). The book is written with flair and enthusiasm - and casts fresh light on this most fascinating of periods. Recommended!
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 31 January 2020
That pretty much sums this book up and I gave up reading it as I found the subtitle "The Women of the Norman Conquest" to be highly misleading.

Every time the author introduces a woman, she then goes on to name not just her husband but her father in-law and grandfather in-law too and it becomes very dull, very quickly.

The same information is repeated word for word in different chapters. On one particular page (Chapter 2) the same phrase is used in two paragraphs, literally one after the other.

I'm going to stop buying books published by Amberley as they clearly seem to think that a good editor is optional.
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on 16 May 2021
Superb ination, a lot of research whent in to this book you can just tell, great read

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Addicted Bibliophile
5.0 out of 5 stars Ah, the ladies!
Reviewed in the United States on 11 July 2019
Sharon Bennett Connelly has blazed onto the landscape of historical writing with a balanced, impeccably researched and very readable and compelling look at the woman, not just those who've become more or less the household names of history, but a wonderful array of those who played pivotal, influential roles in the relative shadows of the men of their era. It is insight long overdue and she does it beautifully. This should be in the library of anyone interested in Medieval history and, in my opinion, should become a benchmark work in courses covering the era.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Women writing about women.
Reviewed in the United States on 26 October 2022
I would recommend this book to anyone who has an honest interest in medieval history. I would certainly recommend the book to anyone that thinks women were fragile during this era. I am so happy to live during a time when women historians are on the rise and we are learning so much more about the strength of women throughout time.
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H. Bryan
2.0 out of 5 stars Too much & not emough
Reviewed in the United States on 19 July 2021
I really wanted to like this book. I admire all the work & research Ms Connolly did for this book but I can't recommend it. There was too much extraneous information, such as details about the stepbrothers or in-laws of the husband of the daughter of the woman the chapter was about. Additionally much of the information was repeated in each chapter. Finally, it was mostly about the men and little about the women. I could only read it in small doses. It was maddeningly hard to read. A better editor was needed, if there was one at all.
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J. Harshbarger
3.0 out of 5 stars Best read in short bursts
Reviewed in the United States on 26 October 2019
I looked forward to this book for a long time, knowing that it would contain information about several of my ancestors. There is information here that was useful to me, and to have it all in one volume is a good thing. On the other hand, I would not recommend sitting down and reading it from cover to cover. There is much repetition from one chapter to the next. If read as a reference, that is probably a good thing. If read cover to cover, it is enough to set one's teeth on edge. I appreciate the work the author went to, and I understand how hard it is to edit one's own work. Perhaps having another set of eyes on this book would have improved it. I'm giving it four stars for information and two stars for flow and readability.
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