Timeline for My boss' new hire, a friend of his, is making advances on me
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| Mar 15, 2017 at 6:15 | comment | added | Purrrple | @eipi: I'm glad it helped :) | |
| Mar 15, 2017 at 6:15 | comment | added | Purrrple | Seriously, I didn't write anywhere to scream or yell (with You) at the mirror. I didn't even thing on that. And I don't see how to practice to tell (with T) someone to stop a negative behaviour is "borderline" either. | |
| Mar 15, 2017 at 6:11 | history | edited | Purrrple | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
Explicitly added not to yell, because some people seem to misread my answer.
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| Mar 15, 2017 at 0:16 | comment | added | Neo | This is borderline not an answer, but its good enough where I won't downvote or recommend deletion. | |
| Mar 14, 2017 at 21:25 | review | Low quality posts | |||
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| Mar 14, 2017 at 21:07 | comment | added | Omegacron | @Fernando - screaming at the mirror (as you put it) is not presented as a full solution to the problem, but merely a step to help the OP resolve the situation. And for introverts, it's a good suggestion and really does help some people. | |
| Mar 14, 2017 at 19:58 | comment | added | eipi | It felt silly to do, but I practised this morning at home before work and it did help. Thanks. | |
| Mar 14, 2017 at 16:22 | history | edited | Purrrple | CC BY-SA 3.0 |
Removed the word "others". I feel it made sound my answer a bit arrogant.
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| Mar 14, 2017 at 16:20 | comment | added | Purrrple | @BradC: exactly. I am also quiet and avoiding confrontation if possible, and I can confirm that practicing helps. | |
| Mar 14, 2017 at 16:01 | comment | added | BradC | Many of the other answers are recommending firm, loud responses, especially around other people. This isn't easy to do, especially for someone who describes themselves as quiet and not liking confrontation. Practicing in a mirror, as silly as it sounds, can be an effective way to get used to responding that way. | |
| Mar 14, 2017 at 15:41 | comment | added | SpongeBob | I don't get why answers like that get upvoted. Scream at a mirror will not solve the problem. The guy need to be put in his place, period. | |
| Mar 14, 2017 at 11:40 | history | answered | Purrrple | CC BY-SA 3.0 |