“My wife is overly possessive and it scares me”

Query: We had a love marriage and we dated for good 4 years before we walked down the aisle. But to my surprise, she changed like night and day right after our honeymoon. She would not let me step out without my wedding band. She would keep track of who calls me even when it was just my female boss, she went nuts asking me what she looks like etc. I cannot talk to my own female cousins in her absence.If I bump into a female friend at the mall, she starts checking my WhatsApp to see how often I talk to her. My social media passwords have been changed… I feel suffocated & humiliated… Should I end this marriage because she has gone beyond reasoning now.
AiR Atman in Ravi, Spiritual leader and Founder of AiR Institute of Realization and AiR Center of Enlightenment

You both loved and knew each other for four years before getting married. The basis of a good marriage is not the duration of your relationship or the social contract of marriage that can be broken easily. The basis of a great marriage is true love, trust and communication that exists between a husband and the wife. True love is divine. Trust between a husband and wife is of great importance too. So is communication. Therefore, talk to your wife, communicate and understand why she is behaving the way she is behaving.
Find out why she is so paranoid about you having female connections. You may find out the reason and address that. Try to build trust, so that she feels secure in this relationship and with you speaking with anybody. Many women have similar issues in marriage and everyone has their valid reasons for it. Understand your wife and do your best to make your marriage work.