4 top reasons why mothers feel frustrated and how to fix this

Textbook moms are kind, with a gentle smile on their lips, busy doing some chores while her kids giggle around her. A perfect picture! However, for many moms, the reality may be far from it. In fact, they may constantly experience feelings of anger or frustration. If you are dubbed as a 'frustrated mom' or think of your mom as one, here are some possible reasons that could be driving the frustration and what you can do about it.

Whether as a mom or in any other kind of role or relationship, you cannot keep pouring from an empty cup. It is essential to find some me-time for yourself, everyday. This doesn't mean that you love your kids or family any less. Instead, this time helps you reconnect with yourselves and come back to your loved ones – feeling recharged and refreshed.

Moms are constantly advised for their choices – from choosing or not to breastfeed to what career their child should pursue. Even with having the best intentions, people can sometimes meddle a lot in your parenting style. It is important to not get easily influenced by what people will think, and rather focus on what's best and needed for you and your child.

As a mom, you would certainly want the best for your child. However, parenting is something you ultimately learn on-the-job, from welcoming your baby to see them grow up. You are bound to make mistakes and that is perfectly normal. Your child doesn't need you to be perfect. All they need is love, care and understanding, and a parent who is willing to learn and grow from their mistakes.

As a working mom, you would have often felt that you need to go out and prove to the world that you are not depriving your children or being an incompetent mom because you are also working and not letting go of your career. This can put a lot of stress and pressure on you, which may only make things more frustrating for you. Remember it is your life and your choices and you should not feel guilty for not compromising on other parts of your life that are outside of being a mom.

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