I'm going to necro my own question here as I've finally found something semi conclusive.
Let's work backwards on the known continuity
Here in 2024 we know that Obi Wan knows Leia and the "that boy is our only hope" line is down to bad continuity
The "other" question was answered really in 1983 with the release of Return of the Jedi. Most answers to this question refer to this.
But from 1980 to 1983 the questions was open. It's also worth remembering that Lucas cut back a lot of plot lines to be done with Star Wars after Jedi. (The world couldn't wait longer of Howard the duck obviously)
It's pretty clear that if at the time of writing Luke and Leia were planned to be siblings that Empire would be a little less incestuous. So there was an original plan for something else to be the other hope.
Since this question was asked the first draft of the episode five script has appeared it resolved this a little.
There is a good write up on slash film
From the article
Luke leaves his Jedi training with Yoda to go rescue his friends from Darth Vader. Yoda regrets this, as Luke is not yet ready to be a Jedi Knight. Yoda holds out hope, however, saying "There is another." Brackett's script also had that line, but it was more explicit as to who the "another" was. It seems Luke still had a long-lost sister named Nellith.
From the script (on Degoba and Skywalker is a force ghost)
SKYWALKER
You’ve grown well, Luke. I’m proud of you.
(Luke, not knowing what to say, says nothing)
Proud, and afraid for you. You’re going into battle untried. Did your uncle ever speak to you about Nellith?
LUKE
Nellith? No. Who is she?
SKYWALKER
Your sister.
LUKE
My sister? I have a sister? But why didn’t Uncle Owen….
SKYWALKER
It was my request. When I saw the Empire closing in, I sent you both away for your own safety, far apart from each other.
LUKE
Where is she?
SKYWALKER
If I were to tell you, Darth Vader could get that information from your mind and use her as a hostage. Not yet, Luke. When it’s time…"