A uniform rope of length $l$ is suspended from two hinges, making an angle of $\theta$ with the horizontal at the hinges. Find the depth $d$ of the lowest point of the rope.
Similar questions include a pulley-block system, where we find the acceleration "along" the rope by dividing the net "pulling force" by the total mass. We can always find the "acceleration along the curve" by dividing the net force "along the curve" by the mass.
In the above question in particular, we can easily find the depth $d$ by breaking the rope into two, and equating the net pulling force (the difference of tensions acting at the ends) to the summed component of gravitational force acting on each element along the rope.
However, what balances the summed component of gravitational force acting perpendicular to the rope (the net tension is along the rope)? What even is the mathematical basis for this hand-wavy method to solve problems?