I asked a similar question - see Also show rejection vote reasons for accepted suggested editsAlso show rejection vote reasons for accepted suggested edits - that has been closed as a duplicate of this one.
It was not en exact duplicate: what happened to me was that my edit was actually accepted, but there was one reject vote with a useful comment. I think that in such a case the chances of missing the comment are even higher that if the edit was actually rejected: I had no reason to go and dig up the comment.
My vote would be to have a notification in the inbox with the comment.
There are ways to criticize something without saying 'you suck' - altough probably as techies we are not very good at that.