The Hate On Single Moms Is Getting Unreal

It wasn’t this bad 10 years ago. What gives?

Ossiana Tepfenhart
Bitchy

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Photo by Alexander Dummer on Unsplash

You know, there are a lot of issues our society tends to have — and one of them deals with the way we treat moms. Married or single, society treats moms like third-class citizens.

The moment the baby comes, women lose their identities. Society expects them to cater to a child’s every need, want, and whim. And if the kid doesn’t behave? People blame the mom, never the dad.

Moms get a lot of hate. They always have. However, there seems to be a growing, seething hate toward single moms that is both alarming and dangerous. In my feed, it’s reaching a fever pitch.

I need to talk about it.

It’s no secret that single moms come with a lot of stigma.

Single moms always had a stigma around them — at least for as long as I’ve been alive. The most common ones I heard were that they slept around, that they were strippers, or that they were somehow less responsible than married moms.

The idea of being a single mom was regularly equated with failure. At the very least, single moms are painted as women who “made a mistake,” or are “down on their luck.”

Growing up, I often was told that…

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Ossiana Tepfenhart
Bitchy

I’m a weirdo who loves to write. Deal with it. Available for hire. Instagram @ossiana.makes.content